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Hopfullness:
I don't call anything like I used to. I used to call practically daily. It's been a few years now since POI was in my life. Still see her all the time but no conversation or contact.

Years have passed. And yet my heart still longs for.

When I met her I said maybe once in a lifetime you meet someone who gets you completely. These relationships are the hardest and yet most rewarding. She agreed. But I guess the way life has unfolded makes me wonder if she was being honest.

I miss her everyday. I don't think I'll ever meet anyone who I could fall for like I did her.

Love feels like it's in the past for me now.

Bostongirl:
I too felt like that we someone over 15 years ago now. we had a great connection and attraction. He got involved in a third party who got herself pregnant and in trapped him. I was devastated. I eventually got over him. When I look back it was mourning the loss of something that could have been but was never. I waisted a lot of time and money crying over him.
Yes, they all told me he would come back. No, he never did. He is still with her. Its comfortable, she pays for everything. He is a bought man. At the time I couldn't see these things about him.
Now, I can say, not sure I knew him as well as I thought I did.
Hope this helps.

HornetKick:

--- Quote from: Bostongirl on May 06, 2017, 02:39:16 PM ---I too felt like that we someone over 15 years ago now. we had a great connection and attraction. He got involved in a third party who got herself pregnant and in trapped him. I was devastated. I eventually got over him. When I look back it was mourning the loss of something that could have been but was never. I waisted a lot of time and money crying over him.
Yes, they all told me he would come back. No, he never did. He is still with her. Its comfortable, she pays for everything. He is a bought man. At the time I couldn't see these things about him.
Now, I can say, not sure I knew him as well as I thought I did.
Hope this helps.

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Great story!

maroonlight:

--- Quote from: Hopfullness on May 06, 2017, 01:18:10 PM ---I don't call anything like I used to. I used to call practically daily. It's been a few years now since POI was in my life. Still see her all the time but no conversation or contact.

Years have passed. And yet my heart still longs for.

When I met her I said maybe once in a lifetime you meet someone who gets you completely. These relationships are the hardest and yet most rewarding. She agreed. But I guess the way life has unfolded makes me wonder if she was being honest.

I miss her everyday. I don't think I'll ever meet anyone who I could fall for like I did her.

Love feels like it's in the past for me now.

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I understand the pain and heart ache you are going through.

It's been almost 2 years since my past POI and I have been apart. I still have feelings for him. All the psychics told me he was coming back. I moved on to a new POI which hasn't been working out for me thus far, but I still of course have feelings for the old one.

I don't think it's hopeless for you at all. There will always be a new person you feel crazy over...I feel crazy over my new POI as well and he has become my primary focus over the old one. It just takes time to meet a new person who really does make you feel that way. At this point in my life I no longer believe in the concept of soulmates, and that there is one person we are destined to be with.

stargazer:

--- Quote from: maroonlight on May 13, 2017, 11:03:43 PM ---At this point in my life I no longer believe in the concept of soulmates, and that there is one person we are destined to be with.

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someone better always comes along, if we are open to it. just takes time ;)

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