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My review and conclusion after 2 years of readings
bluebelle:
--- Quote from: knel27 on April 20, 2017, 01:49:34 PM ---How did you break the cycle? I'm so sick of calling psychics after 9 months of silence with my POI, I wish I could just stop but they all keep giving me hope and saying he's coming back. I know I'm not really living my life, I do want to let go. I admire you posting this...any advice? It really is addicting... :(
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A big part of it is a lack of meeting someone better. In the past (BEFORE I GOT READINGS), when I ended things with someone or things didn't work out, the one thing that always helped me move on the most was meeting someone else. I am the type that gets attached and it's hard for me to let go, even if I know the situation is bad for me. I even hang on to toxic situations, as evidenced by the guy I got so many readings about.
I was out living my life while hanging on to him, going to work every day, hanging out with friends, etc., but I always had that thought or fantasy in the back of my head, and the readings fueled it. Such a hard addiction to break because like a drug, it gives you a temporary high, and then a crash when things don't play out.
Anyway my point is, hopefully meeting someone better will help you move on. It's really hard to get over someone you have a connection/strong feelings for, so to divert the focus on to someone new always worked well for me. By the time the person came back around (in my past), i was always like ewww what did I ever want them for?? lol. Life is funny that way. I stress that it's important to let life flow and the readings can be very toxic because you are hindering your growth and slowing down moving on.
Just my own two cents.
ladya:
--- Quote from: bluebelle on April 20, 2017, 04:06:50 PM ---
--- Quote from: knel27 on April 20, 2017, 01:49:34 PM ---How did you break the cycle? I'm so sick of calling psychics after 9 months of silence with my POI, I wish I could just stop but they all keep giving me hope and saying he's coming back. I know I'm not really living my life, I do want to let go. I admire you posting this...any advice? It really is addicting... :(
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A big part of it is a lack of meeting someone better. In the past (BEFORE I GOT READINGS), when I ended things with someone or things didn't work out, the one thing that always helped me move on the most was meeting someone else. I am the type that gets attached and it's hard for me to let go, even if I know the situation is bad for me. I even hang on to toxic situations, as evidenced by the guy I got so many readings about.
I was out living my life while hanging on to him, going to work every day, hanging out with friends, etc., but I always had that thought or fantasy in the back of my head, and the readings fueled it. Such a hard addiction to break because like a drug, it gives you a temporary high, and then a crash when things don't play out.
Anyway my point is, hopefully meeting someone better will help you move on. It's really hard to get over someone you have a connection/strong feelings for, so to divert the focus on to someone new always worked well for me. By the time the person came back around (in my past), i was always like ewww what did I ever want them for?? lol. Life is funny that way. I stress that it's important to let life flow and the readings can be very toxic because you are hindering your growth and slowing down moving on.
Just my own two cents.
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lololol this is so me! the eww part always happens to me. once im over someone they dont exist to me. getting over them is the problem. its odd though becuase im not like that in other parts of my life, only romantic. everything else friends or anything else im not strongly attached to and can let go easily. relationships on the other hand, it takes me a lot to leave one.
bluebelle:
--- Quote from: ladya on April 20, 2017, 04:32:32 PM ---
--- Quote from: bluebelle on April 20, 2017, 04:06:50 PM ---
--- Quote from: knel27 on April 20, 2017, 01:49:34 PM ---How did you break the cycle? I'm so sick of calling psychics after 9 months of silence with my POI, I wish I could just stop but they all keep giving me hope and saying he's coming back. I know I'm not really living my life, I do want to let go. I admire you posting this...any advice? It really is addicting... :(
--- End quote ---
A big part of it is a lack of meeting someone better. In the past (BEFORE I GOT READINGS), when I ended things with someone or things didn't work out, the one thing that always helped me move on the most was meeting someone else. I am the type that gets attached and it's hard for me to let go, even if I know the situation is bad for me. I even hang on to toxic situations, as evidenced by the guy I got so many readings about.
I was out living my life while hanging on to him, going to work every day, hanging out with friends, etc., but I always had that thought or fantasy in the back of my head, and the readings fueled it. Such a hard addiction to break because like a drug, it gives you a temporary high, and then a crash when things don't play out.
Anyway my point is, hopefully meeting someone better will help you move on. It's really hard to get over someone you have a connection/strong feelings for, so to divert the focus on to someone new always worked well for me. By the time the person came back around (in my past), i was always like ewww what did I ever want them for?? lol. Life is funny that way. I stress that it's important to let life flow and the readings can be very toxic because you are hindering your growth and slowing down moving on.
Just my own two cents.
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lololol this is so me! the eww part always happens to me. once im over someone they dont exist to me. getting over them is the problem. its odd though becuase im not like that in other parts of my life, only romantic. everything else friends or anything else im not strongly attached to and can let go easily. relationships on the other hand, it takes me a lot to leave one.
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I hear you 100%, I'm the same way. I've let go of friends, even toxic family members, without much thought but love interests are hard for me. Probably something I could figure out in therapy if I ever go LOLL!
I remember a guy I dated for about four years on and off. Ultimate mind games, back and forth, hot and cold, just a headcase. Never got readings on the dude, EXCEPT ONE, I didn't believe in them then, the lady was on point. tarot reader who is no longer doing it (local lady)..told me "run this guy only cares about himself". she was 100% right, of course didn't want to hear at the time.
I wanted to be in a relationship with him so bad and we were for a while, but it was just a bad one for the most part. I hung on for SO long, hoping it would turn into something it just wasn't meant to be.
I finally let go completely (as painful as it was) and just ignored his last call to me, when I would have always returned it. Then I met someone ten times better like six months down the line and totally forgot about this jerk.
He reached out like five years later on FB and I seriously was like wtf did I want this dude for. Same issues, different day....and I was looking thru his pictures like wtf did I ever see in him??? LOLL
HornetKick:
--- Quote from: bluebelle on April 20, 2017, 04:36:45 PM ---I hear you 100%, I'm the same way. I've let go of friends, even toxic family members, without much thought but love interests are hard for me. Probably something I could figure out in therapy if I ever go LOLL!
I remember a guy I dated for about four years on and off. Ultimate mind games, back and forth, hot and cold, just a headcase. Never got readings on the dude, EXCEPT ONE, I didn't believe in them then, the lady was on point. tarot reader who is no longer doing it (local lady)..told me "run this guy only cares about himself". she was 100% right, of course didn't want to hear at the time.
I wanted to be in a relationship with him so bad and we were for a while, but it was just a bad one for the most part. I hung on for SO long, hoping it would turn into something it just wasn't meant to be.
I finally let go completely (as painful as it was) and just ignored his last call to me, when I would have always returned it. Then I met someone ten times better like six months down the line and totally forgot about this jerk.
He reached out like five years later on FB and I seriously was like wtf did I want this dude for. Same issues, different day....and I was looking thru his pictures like wtf did I ever see in him??? LOLL
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tbh these are the kinds of things you can ask a psychic about, not relationships. When you recognize something in you that needs to be fixed, ask them why you're like that - what caused it in your life, if you don't know. Ask how to fix it, what you can do on your own to straighten out the disconnected wiring or whatever it may be. This is what I've done at certain times and I would always ask my trusted psychic about this. Persephone Hesperus, who no longer reads. Man, she was close to god, at least touching the hem of his garment, as far as I am concerned and was/is the best reader I've ever come across in my life. She gave me suggestions on how to help myself, but I'm aware of self-help stuff (read tons of books, took an Art of Life course, met with a $400 per hour counselor/therapist, tried mantras/affirmations, etc), which takes eons and eons to repair, which I work a lifetime on, but there was always one thing more that I wasn't hitting, wasn't fixing. I had a read with her once and it was just so blah, not specific, so off and I chalked it up to her having a bad day. She, without me asking issued a refund and told me her guides told her she was wrong on the assessment during the reading. I never had a reader willingly, EVER give a refund, on their own. I hope to hell she comes online again at some point, in some capacity.
Baypark1:
--- Quote from: HornetKick on April 20, 2017, 04:56:36 PM ---
--- Quote from: bluebelle on April 20, 2017, 04:36:45 PM ---I hear you 100%, I'm the same way. I've let go of friends, even toxic family members, without much thought but love interests are hard for me. Probably something I could figure out in therapy if I ever go LOLL!
I remember a guy I dated for about four years on and off. Ultimate mind games, back and forth, hot and cold, just a headcase. Never got readings on the dude, EXCEPT ONE, I didn't believe in them then, the lady was on point. tarot reader who is no longer doing it (local lady)..told me "run this guy only cares about himself". she was 100% right, of course didn't want to hear at the time.
I wanted to be in a relationship with him so bad and we were for a while, but it was just a bad one for the most part. I hung on for SO long, hoping it would turn into something it just wasn't meant to be.
I finally let go completely (as painful as it was) and just ignored his last call to me, when I would have always returned it. Then I met someone ten times better like six months down the line and totally forgot about this jerk.
He reached out like five years later on FB and I seriously was like wtf did I want this dude for. Same issues, different day....and I was looking thru his pictures like wtf did I ever see in him??? LOLL
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tbh these are the kinds of things you can ask a psychic about, not relationships. When you recognize something in you that needs to be fixed, ask them why you're like that - what caused it in your life, if you don't know. Ask how to fix it, what you can do on your own to straighten out the disconnected wiring or whatever it may be. This is what I've done at certain times and I would always ask my trusted psychic about this. Persephone Hesperus, who no longer reads. Man, she was close to god, at least touching the hem of his garment, as far as I am concerned and was/is the best reader I've ever come across in my life. She gave me suggestions on how to help myself, but I'm aware of self-help stuff (read tons of books, took an Art of Life course, met with a $400 per hour counselor/therapist, tried mantras/affirmations, etc), which takes eons and eons to repair, which I work a lifetime on, but there was always one thing more that I wasn't hitting, wasn't fixing. I had a read with her once and it was just so blah, not specific, so off and I chalked it up to her having a bad day. She, without me asking issued a refund and told me her guides told her she was wrong on the assessment during the reading. I never had a reader willingly, EVER give a refund, on their own. I hope to hell she comes online again at some point, in some capacity.
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I once asked Judy why I couldn't let go of this guy. So she channeled me to figure out why. What she came up with exactly the way I was feeling but I didn't realize exactly why I couldn't let go until she actually channeled me and put it into words.
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