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HornetKick:

--- Quote from: esthere2017 on March 08, 2017, 05:36:57 PM ---I find a lot of readers tend to interject fairly traditional and ingrained misogynistic views onto their advice when it comes to dating. For example, shaming you when you made the first move or when you called a man you liked after a great date. They all tend to favour the bullshit old standard of always waiting for a man to make the first move and dictate the outcomes. A long time ago Queen of Cups (who I can't stand by the way, do not recommend and will never call again) chastised me when I asked about two different men in my past by attempting to shame me for having multiple men in my life. That sort of nonsense. We pay a lot of money to call these kooks, it should make you feel good. If she is making you feel frustrated or upset find somebody else.

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Holy cow aren't we in the 21st century already or what? Sometimes a woman can be another woman's worst enemy.

SunshineChick22, you might want to consider that the reader was having a bad eff'd up day or something and felt the need to take it out on you. She may have issues with your SO being so great and her SO is going downhill. People sometimes do get jealous of others, who's life seems to be going really good. AND jealousy is one of those emotions that is just hard to fathom from some people. The blame game is not my cup of tea and I would have been questioning the reading as well.

transplantnurse:

--- Quote from: SunshineChick22 on March 08, 2017, 12:33:45 PM ---There is a reader I've been speaking to for about a year and a half now about my current relationship. We are together, just an abnormal relationship due to health concerns that need to be navigated from time to time.

Have any of you gone to a trusted reader for a length period of time - but then be ridiculed for decisions that you make? We are together, that means communication, seeing each other, etc is there. Today in my reading with her she made conflicting statements. I asked her several questions after that to understand what she was saying and she became combative. Then she ridicules me for conversations I have with my boyfriend - what I say to him, when I say, etc. finally I just now sent her an email and let her know it was unappreciated - that we are in a relationship and I should feel free to have conversations with my SO without having to run every conversation by her or being made to feel like I'm doing the wrong things.

Has anyone ever had this experience before? Completely turned me off from even wanting updated readings for awhile :/ afraid it's going to start making me over think and cause issues in my relationship that aren't there.

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I agree YOU  ARE PAYING HER!!she needs to bounce..I wouldn't call her again

moonlight412:

--- Quote from: SunshineChick22 on March 08, 2017, 12:33:45 PM ---There is a reader I've been speaking to for about a year and a half now about my current relationship. We are together, just an abnormal relationship due to health concerns that need to be navigated from time to time.

Have any of you gone to a trusted reader for a length period of time - but then be ridiculed for decisions that you make? We are together, that means communication, seeing each other, etc is there. Today in my reading with her she made conflicting statements. I asked her several questions after that to understand what she was saying and she became combative. Then she ridicules me for conversations I have with my boyfriend - what I say to him, when I say, etc. finally I just now sent her an email and let her know it was unappreciated - that we are in a relationship and I should feel free to have conversations with my SO without having to run every conversation by her or being made to feel like I'm doing the wrong things.

Has anyone ever had this experience before? Completely turned me off from even wanting updated readings for awhile :/ afraid it's going to start making me over think and cause issues in my relationship that aren't there.

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Wow! What a jerk! Ya you are not paying $$ per minute to run by your conversations with her.. You think that these readers are spiritual people so they must be all positive, happy and dedicated..  but I have seen some of them are really petty.. like one reader blocked me because I gave her 4/5 stars!! I mean excuse me for being honest and still 4 stars is pretty good and she went on to send me this nasty email saying how I have behaved in a mean way by giving her 4 stars.. that had made me so upset but I laugh at it now.. especially if you have been going to someone for an year then you also make an emotional connection with them so I am sure you feel hurt and disappointed!
I agree with others- ditch this reader and try others!

bluebelle:

--- Quote from: ScorpioRising on May 02, 2017, 11:28:28 PM ---This is what I'm going through now and it can be really disappointing. Its so important not to get too many readings, especially from the same readers because they may get lazy since they know your situation so well. I went through this with my go to for almost a year and my last reading with her she grossly misinterpreted something which led me on a binge.

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so true...at one point in my situation, I just seeked out readings from new readers that I had never read with before because I felt I was getting recycled information from the ones I was reading with continuously....

Epic08:
I commented on the same thing in another thread a while ago. I read with a reader for about 10 years and over time we developed a friendship and our readings started turning into 'best friend' conversations. I would get bits and pieces of information but it was more of a friend giving me advice. I didn't realize it until a few months ago. I wish I had seen it sooner but I didn't. I haven't read with her for a few months and I'm not sure if I will again

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