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Do any of you think your POI may not come back?
peppie:
--- Quote from: Rediska on March 05, 2017, 03:24:42 AM ---
--- Quote from: peppie on March 05, 2017, 02:51:06 AM ---if it's more than two weeks, assume he's not coming back. only a handful of readers said nope not happening about a few relationships i asked about. the rest gave me a fairy tale.
if it's the right guy, it should be easy and we shouldn't be left guessing is my assertion. i still don't mind being deceived for a few days if i'm in a bad moment in life, though. but when i snap out of it, i hate being lied to and hate that readers give false hope.
exceptions:
he lost his job
he just started a job
a family member, including a dog died
he has a work or school deadline
he just got a divorce
other than that, no guy with his sh*t together is going to give up something very good and leave it hanging for weeks on end.
if he comes back, great, but if he leaves... time to move on.
-learned the hard way (and yes, every guy was "the one" according to some readers... not)
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I definitely agree with this. But I have also had men who kept me in "limbo" intentionally by "disappearing." They do this so they don't fully close the door on you "just in case." I found out its because in reality they are emotionally unavailable.
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yes, and that is not the man you want. a man who does this is weak and furthermore doesn't really want you (not "you" you, but in general). we women need to rule this men out as not quality men (or at least not ready and not worth our time).
peppie:
--- Quote from: Rediska on March 05, 2017, 04:07:23 AM ---
Part of the reason why I am clinging on to this person is because he told me verbally there was a possibility he would call me once he moved to another state. He basically forced me into limbo. I should've hung up on him right then and there but I didn't and here I am..almost 7 months later wondering.
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If a man tells me there is a possibility he would call me... I would say "ohhhhh great! great catching up" and dump his arse without telling him I've done so (just stop responding and certainly never contact him again). He either comes running back realizing what a dumba$$ he's been or i've saved myself a load of crap. This type of behavior is a favor. Thank you for showing me who you are and early on so I don't have to waste more time on you.
What a man says matters not. What he does speaks volumes.
-Learned again the hard way (and many $$ later)
transplantnurse:
--- Quote from: transplantnurse on March 05, 2017, 09:17:31 AM ---I read this posts and I just feel sad because women shouldn't have to chase ,communicate first simply put like the posts here if he wants you he will come after you ..very few of us very few will end up with happily ever after with the men we talk to about psychics because men who are into us it's simple we know..Looking back at my notes I have almost never asked about a man who I know is interested in me ..My mother told me if you have to question a mans love devotion for you then it probably isn't there !The money we spend on psychics would be spent with a shrink to help someone figure out why they date a certain type or why we are emotionally unavailable..I hate to say this we console each other say he isn't shit etc but given another woman your so called pain is the perfect man so he isn't the right one for you ..granted not everyone meets a man dates commit engaged wedded bliss this is the norm not the exception .Ladies lets see the situation as it is .
Blessings
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transplantnurse:
--- Quote from: Rediska on March 05, 2017, 03:24:42 AM ---
--- Quote from: peppie on March 05, 2017, 02:51:06 AM ---if it's more than two weeks, assume he's not coming back. only a handful of readers said nope not happening about a few relationships i asked about. the rest gave me a fairy tale.
if it's the right guy, it should be easy and we shouldn't be left guessing is my assertion. i still don't mind being deceived for a few days if i'm in a bad moment in life, though. but when i snap out of it, i hate being lied to and hate that readers give false hope.
exceptions:
he lost his job
he just started a job
a family member, including a dog died
he has a work or school deadline
he just got a divorce
other than that, no guy with his sh*t together is going to give up something very good and leave it hanging for weeks on end.
if he comes back, great, but if he leaves... time to move on.
-learned the hard way (and yes, every guy was "the one" according to some readers... not)
--- End quote ---
I definitely agree with this. But I have also had men who kept me in "limbo" intentionally by "disappearing." They do this so they don't fully close the door on you "just in case." I found out its because in reality they are emotionally unavailable.
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Lol it means they aren't into you ..
FaithnTrust:
That's exactly what it means Transplant!! It's only our ego that says otherwise and keeps us hoping and waiting.
People - think of every person in your life that is in a long term, successful relationship ! Besides normal disagreements and maybe a
break up that lasts a few days, you'll notice that their man doesn't disappear. They don't stop calling or stop wanting to be around their
POI. To argue otherwise is just keeping yourself in a safe bubble, which will also keep you from moving on, letting go and living your life.
A MAN IN LOVE DOES NOT DISAPPEAR! It's a painful, brutal truth. Feel the pain - save your money - and move on knowing that he lost the best thing he'll ever know :)
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