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Do any of you think your POI may not come back?
Rediska:
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--- Quote from: sunshineluv7 on March 04, 2017, 06:27:00 PM ---There were times when I honestly thought he wouldn't, and so far... our story keeps continuing. Just last week we probably had the biggest heart to heart we've had in ...a year? a year and a half? and he actually said he's ready to take things forward among a bunch of other stuff I'm still not really entirely sure I believe really happened, even though I partook in the conversation lol. It hasn't happened yet, it's still "talk" and he has "mancaved" since then, so who knows (eye roll).
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Just wanted to say thank you for your post!
Think it finally gave me the push I needed to contact my POI
I was just so sick of waiting on all these contact predictions when I strongly felt as if I needed some answers to where we were and what was going on seeing as he disappeared for an entire month after telling me that he'd "speak very soon" with me.
And I'm so glad that I did. I called him up after a date I went on tonight (lol) and we chatted for over 2 hours.
While nothings changed - I did get some more answers and after waiting so long to hear it he finally said "I love you" to me.
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What was his reason for disappearing?
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That he at first assumed that I would know that he needed more space/time to sort his mess out
But then that he saw my profile on dating apps combined with my social media posts he thought that I was just doing super fine and moving forward fast and didn't want to hear from him
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Please tell me that some of these readers knew what the issues were regarding him when you called? did any of them get it right.
Rediska:
--- Quote from: peppie on March 05, 2017, 02:51:06 AM ---if it's more than two weeks, assume he's not coming back. only a handful of readers said nope not happening about a few relationships i asked about. the rest gave me a fairy tale.
if it's the right guy, it should be easy and we shouldn't be left guessing is my assertion. i still don't mind being deceived for a few days if i'm in a bad moment in life, though. but when i snap out of it, i hate being lied to and hate that readers give false hope.
exceptions:
he lost his job
he just started a job
a family member, including a dog died
he has a work or school deadline
he just got a divorce
other than that, no guy with his sh*t together is going to give up something very good and leave it hanging for weeks on end.
if he comes back, great, but if he leaves... time to move on.
-learned the hard way (and yes, every guy was "the one" according to some readers... not)
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I definitely agree with this. But I have also had men who kept me in "limbo" intentionally by "disappearing." They do this so they don't fully close the door on you "just in case." I found out its because in reality they are emotionally unavailable.
ladya:
I agree with the above comment. If you're not hearing from a guy for more than a week there's something wrong. A simple hello isn't that hard to send no matter what's going on unless it's something serious.
Baypark1:
--- Quote from: peppie on March 05, 2017, 02:51:06 AM ---if it's more than two weeks, assume he's not coming back. only a handful of readers said nope not happening about a few relationships i asked about. the rest gave me a fairy tale.
if it's the right guy, it should be easy and we shouldn't be left guessing is my assertion. i still don't mind being deceived for a few days if i'm in a bad moment in life, though. but when i snap out of it, i hate being lied to and hate that readers give false hope.
exceptions:
he lost his job
he just started a job
a family member, including a dog died
he has a work or school deadline
he just got a divorce
other than that, no guy with his sh*t together is going to give up something very good and leave it hanging for weeks on end.
if he comes back, great, but if he leaves... time to move on.
-learned the hard way (and yes, every guy was "the one" according to some readers... not)
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Although I do agree, there are exceptions. One guy I went out with for 1 month until he told me there was someone else he had met around the same time as me. He chose her. A month isn't a long time at all to get attached, but I could not get this guy out of my heart. I started calling psychics and they said he would be back. It was 9 months later he came back. So it does happen. But I think detaching and trying to move on helps.
Rediska:
--- Quote from: Baypark1 on March 05, 2017, 03:31:53 AM ---
--- Quote from: peppie on March 05, 2017, 02:51:06 AM ---if it's more than two weeks, assume he's not coming back. only a handful of readers said nope not happening about a few relationships i asked about. the rest gave me a fairy tale.
if it's the right guy, it should be easy and we shouldn't be left guessing is my assertion. i still don't mind being deceived for a few days if i'm in a bad moment in life, though. but when i snap out of it, i hate being lied to and hate that readers give false hope.
exceptions:
he lost his job
he just started a job
a family member, including a dog died
he has a work or school deadline
he just got a divorce
other than that, no guy with his sh*t together is going to give up something very good and leave it hanging for weeks on end.
if he comes back, great, but if he leaves... time to move on.
-learned the hard way (and yes, every guy was "the one" according to some readers... not)
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Although I do agree, there are exceptions. One guy I went out with for 1 month until he told me there was someone else he had met around the same time as me. He chose her. A month isn't a long time at all to get attached, but I could not get this guy out of my heart. I started calling psychics and they said he would be back. It was 9 months later he came back. So it does happen. But I think detaching and trying to move on helps.
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That gives me hope Baypark :) what made him come back to you is that "what if?" that was on the back of mind. And assuming he was no longer with the other woman.
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