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Psychic Spree...because I can't handle the emotional pain...
bluebelle:
--- Quote from: wildfox87 on May 04, 2017, 03:05:35 AM ---Let go penny because timeframes are a hoax. You will wait for the end of summer than get really disappointed that it didn't pan out, then you will call back and they will tell you it will be a few months longer, than you'll be trapped in this vicious obsession of waiting for your life to start, waiting for something that may never happen. Take it from someone who has wasted years yes years waiting for someone to get their sh*t together. Psychic readings are like a drug. Stop while you're in the beginning stages. Life is too short to wait for someone who doesn't want you in the first place. If he did he wouldn't have left.
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OMG yes. this happened so many times to me. Last spring, it was summer, last summer it was fall....then beginning of 2017. Needless to say, we are now almost in middle of May, and nada lol, not that I believe anything will happen at this point LOL. It's not funny, but funny in an infuriating way. So many have gotten trapped in this cycle. :-[ :-[
I can see how years would slip by while you are waiting. very scary.
Baypark1:
Life is too short to wait for someone who doesn't want you in the first place. If he did he wouldn't have left.
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THIS! This is SO true yet so hard to get past. Why would we want someone who doesn't want us in the first place? It's the craziest thing ever and then to waste hundreds and thousands on readers to tell us a bunch of crap that 99% of the time doesn't come true. It truly is a vicious cycle.
sunshineluv7:
Here's what I will say ...
I totally get it. Been there. More times than I care to admit.
The key?
Don't run from the pain. Run right INTO it. Let yourself be completely miserable and upset and feel rejected and cry and scream it out.
The only way out is through. But if you supress it, it will keep coming up/you will keep calling UNTIL you deal with it OR it changes.
And it might never change. Or it might change for the worse. In fact, it's a much much higher chance that it will change for the worse - just seeing how people try to only marry one person. So EVERYONe else, you will NOT be with at the end.
So scream into a pillow. Yell in your car. Play sad songs and cry yourself out as much as you need.
The only way out is through.
bluebelle:
--- Quote from: sunshineluv7 on May 04, 2017, 05:49:36 PM ---Here's what I will say ...
I totally get it. Been there. More times than I care to admit.
The key?
Don't run from the pain. Run right INTO it. Let yourself be completely miserable and upset and feel rejected and cry and scream it out.
The only way out is through. But if you supress it, it will keep coming up/you will keep calling UNTIL you deal with it OR it changes.
And it might never change. Or it might change for the worse. In fact, it's a much much higher chance that it will change for the worse - just seeing how people try to only marry one person. So EVERYONe else, you will NOT be with at the end.
So scream into a pillow. Yell in your car. Play sad songs and cry yourself out as much as you need.
The only way out is through.
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Great post, I agree 100%
bluebelle:
--- Quote from: Baypark1 on May 04, 2017, 04:21:55 PM --- Life is too short to wait for someone who doesn't want you in the first place. If he did he wouldn't have left.
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THIS! This is SO true yet so hard to get past. Why would we want someone who doesn't want us in the first place? It's the craziest thing ever and then to waste hundreds and thousands on readers to tell us a bunch of crap that 99% of the time doesn't come true. It truly is a vicious cycle.
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simply put, I think we want what we can't have. kind of human nature, in it's own sick way. I would bet 99% of the time, if the POI we were calling about was more open and aggressive, we probably wouldn't want them anyway. LOL
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