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Psychic Spree...because I can't handle the emotional pain...
FaithnTrust:
Calling readers prevents the natural healing process, and the process of letting go. Readings keep you in a perpetual state of hoping and waiting. How are you supposed to move on when all you hear is how much he loves you and all the other bullshit they serve on a silver platter!
HornetKick:
--- Quote from: FaithnTrust on May 05, 2017, 06:41:14 PM ---Calling readers prevents the natural healing process, and the process of letting go. Readings keep you in a perpetual state of hoping and waiting. How are you supposed to move on when all you hear is how much he loves you and all the other bullshit they serve on a silver platter!
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So true but at some point you have to look at the other person's actions. They too gave off hope, it wasn't just the psychic. People can live off hope for many moons and it can be destructive if not soul crushing. Reading with a bunch of psychics who are wrong constantly can help put people off from getting readings as well. Some do have to live and learn. It's a harder lesson, but it works.
I’m so thankful that looking back on one relationship that I was able to let go is because I assessed the situation and stopped listening to my go to reader. They weren’t there day to day living in the mess, they were only taking snapshots and basing their answers off particular questions (one spec from time). If I can only get back the time I wasted with some people. Wow.
bluebelle:
Yep. In my case, the guy kept coming back, saying he missed me, all kinds of stuff, etc...so it was adding fuel to the fire with the readings on top of it, because I kept thinking, it must be what they are all talking about.
maroonlight:
--- Quote from: Amb on May 04, 2017, 04:31:38 AM ---
--- Quote from: maroonlight on March 01, 2017, 01:03:41 AM ---I'm sure many of you can relate to this.
Back in October/November of 2016 I had called so many of the CP psychics because I was still heartbroken over an ex who was gone for an entire year...
Once the predictions didn't come to pass, I let go of it and stayed off of the psychics for 2 months.
Then I met someone new in January who has caused great heartache with his mixed signals and rejection. I haven't liked someone like this ever since my ex left, and now I'm right back where I was calling the CP psychics and wasting so much money..
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So sorry Maroonlight! Remember, your an amazing person, have faith in yourself and Ef him with his mixed signals!! Don't settle for this and his rejection! Ugh! I spent too many years on one of those types! If he's not stepping up, screw him!! More fish in the sea! A real man doesn't put a woman through this crap! I just get so worked up with guys like this. Sorry to rant. Hope you're doing ok.
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Hi Amb.
I can say for sure it's not going to go on for years. In the fall of 2016 all the psychics told me I would hear something by the holidays or February, and once those timeframes came to pass I stopped calling on him. I emailed him after a year of no contact to find out how he really felt about me, and guess what? No response...
That's when I woke up and realized that everything they had told me about him was a lie. So I avoid CP but have been using Keen recently.
If nothing happens by the end of the summer with this one, because most predictions have been made for late May, and June, then that's when I'll call it quits and swear to never call another psychic again..
maroonlight:
--- Quote from: bluebelle on May 05, 2017, 02:05:03 PM ---
--- Quote from: Baypark1 on May 04, 2017, 04:21:55 PM --- Life is too short to wait for someone who doesn't want you in the first place. If he did he wouldn't have left.
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THIS! This is SO true yet so hard to get past. Why would we want someone who doesn't want us in the first place? It's the craziest thing ever and then to waste hundreds and thousands on readers to tell us a bunch of crap that 99% of the time doesn't come true. It truly is a vicious cycle.
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simply put, I think we want what we can't have. kind of human nature, in it's own sick way. I would bet 99% of the time, if the POI we were calling about was more open and aggressive, we probably wouldn't want them anyway. LOL
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I've always found that to be true. I think it is human nature to want something that is unattainable.
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