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Tara
LucyDiamond:
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--- Quote from: Star_01 on August 03, 2019, 05:23:56 PM ---It must be hard being a reader and trying to "push" down your opinions of a situation or what customers are telling you as a reader about their situation, I would probably struggle to decipher and have had readers tell me themselves that it's very tricky to push your opinions aside. Obviously sometimes opinion needs to come in when there is an actively abusive dangerous relationship like domestic violence, but aside from that it's disappointing because clearly for Tara if she didn't have such opinions then apart from that aspect she has been pretty accurate for people.
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This is a great point! Something I’ve noticed lately is that when I give readers very little, or no information, the good ones pick up on everything and make very accurate predictions. But when I start sharing the situation, even the really great readers seem to start to become less accurate for me. This seems to be especially true when I start to really like a reader and call more frequently, I start to share more in order to get straight to the point. With my present batch of favorite readers, I’ve dialed back on sharing details, and just ask my questions, and they’ve remained accurate, and there’s no chance that they can become unconsciously biased by any details. Just something I’m noticing after two years of switching up readers 😂 It’s kinda like how they say therapists shouldn’t try to work with family members or friends, even the most seasoned professionals struggle to remain impartial when they feel more connected to a person.
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Who are your current favorites if you don't mind saying?
Star_01:
--- Quote from: Theycallmepatient on August 04, 2019, 12:51:32 AM ---
--- Quote from: Star_01 on August 03, 2019, 05:23:56 PM ---It must be hard being a reader and trying to "push" down your opinions of a situation or what customers are telling you as a reader about their situation, I would probably struggle to decipher and have had readers tell me themselves that it's very tricky to push your opinions aside. Obviously sometimes opinion needs to come in when there is an actively abusive dangerous relationship like domestic violence, but aside from that it's disappointing because clearly for Tara if she didn't have such opinions then apart from that aspect she has been pretty accurate for people.
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This is a great point! Something I’ve noticed lately is that when I give readers very little, or no information, the good ones pick up on everything and make very accurate predictions. But when I start sharing the situation, even the really great readers seem to start to become less accurate for me. This seems to be especially true when I start to really like a reader and call more frequently, I start to share more in order to get straight to the point. With my present batch of favorite readers, I’ve dialed back on sharing details, and just ask my questions, and they’ve remained accurate, and there’s no chance that they can become unconsciously biased by any details. Just something I’m noticing after two years of switching up readers 😂 It’s kinda like how they say therapists shouldn’t try to work with family members or friends, even the most seasoned professionals struggle to remain impartial when they feel more connected to a person.
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Thank you :) I never hand out info when I talk to readers but sometimes you subconsciously do when a reader verifies something or when they ask questions. That's another thing I find that they do, they pick at questions, the most common types such as hot and cold/commitment fears/was there someone else in this?
Theycallmepatient:
--- Quote from: LucyDiamond on August 04, 2019, 06:22:23 AM ---
--- Quote from: Theycallmepatient on August 04, 2019, 12:51:32 AM ---
--- Quote from: Star_01 on August 03, 2019, 05:23:56 PM ---It must be hard being a reader and trying to "push" down your opinions of a situation or what customers are telling you as a reader about their situation, I would probably struggle to decipher and have had readers tell me themselves that it's very tricky to push your opinions aside. Obviously sometimes opinion needs to come in when there is an actively abusive dangerous relationship like domestic violence, but aside from that it's disappointing because clearly for Tara if she didn't have such opinions then apart from that aspect she has been pretty accurate for people.
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This is a great point! Something I’ve noticed lately is that when I give readers very little, or no information, the good ones pick up on everything and make very accurate predictions. But when I start sharing the situation, even the really great readers seem to start to become less accurate for me. This seems to be especially true when I start to really like a reader and call more frequently, I start to share more in order to get straight to the point. With my present batch of favorite readers, I’ve dialed back on sharing details, and just ask my questions, and they’ve remained accurate, and there’s no chance that they can become unconsciously biased by any details. Just something I’m noticing after two years of switching up readers 😂 It’s kinda like how they say therapists shouldn’t try to work with family members or friends, even the most seasoned professionals struggle to remain impartial when they feel more connected to a person.
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Who are your current favorites if you don't mind saying?
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My current favorites are Nevada, Tulsa, Yafa, and Dave. Dave is very expensive and focuses on long term outcome, but he has been the first to give me new info that I was able to validate on multiple occasions, so I read with him about 2-3 times a year. Nevada, Tulsa and Yafa all gave me details no other readers saw, with absolutely no information with me, and have made predictions that have played out for me.
TeaAndCookies:
Tulsa is awesome, IMHO. Is Yafa as good?
Theycallmepatient:
So I just started a thread on Yafa, she was on point for me at first, and a few of her predictions played out exactly as she said. She picked up everything with no info. But last time I read with her a few days ago, she called for a completely different outcome and changed absolutely everything she originally said... so I’m not sure anymore. One reason I consistently ready with Dave is because he sees details and can always offer validations and tells me new things that I see come to pass, and his outcomes never change, that means a lot to me, I get cautious if a reader’s predictions do a 180 between reads, although...life is messy, maybe something changed in a major way. Things definitely feel different now, but I don’t know if they really are, or if it’s in my head...
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