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HornetKick:
Don't get me wrong, I've done it, but once I realized there was no movement within the relationship, I knew all the little, faux words of hope (the little bones he was throwing) was not going to benefit me in the long run.
One basically has to go on how a person is treating you and to look at their behavior because the saying and the doing are not even in the same boat. We can’t really blame the reader, they are on the outside looking in…we are that fly on the wall (we are involved).
It was explained to me like this once. If a guy says he doesn’t want children and is willing to go ahead and have unprotected sex (like most do), then guess what??? he is going to have a child (but, there are exceptions to this). All the guy is saying is that he doesn’t want the obligations and responsibilities that come with having children, because even after the child is born, he is out the door (again there are exceptions).
We can only go by the doing, not all the crap coming out of their mouths.
Beesa:
how many people would actually leave a bad situation and stop waiting if a psychic told them to move on
HornetKick:
So true....
But the flip side is that many stay in a bad relationship if the psychic tells them to hang in there because such and such cares for them deeply.
It sounds like the same thing to me.
transplantnurse:
--- Quote from: Beesa on March 07, 2017, 09:51:21 PM ---how many people would actually leave a bad situation and stop waiting if a psychic told them to move on
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Am pretty sure such people have been told by lets say girl friends?family?to leave that bad situation so why is a psychic anymore special or different ?
Beesa:
--- Quote from: transplantnurse on March 08, 2017, 12:50:05 AM ---
--- Quote from: Beesa on March 07, 2017, 09:51:21 PM ---how many people would actually leave a bad situation and stop waiting if a psychic told them to move on
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Am pretty sure such people have been told by lets say girl friends?family?to leave that bad situation so why is a psychic anymore special or different ?
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Who said it was different? It's the same thing. people don't leave bad situations unless they're ready to full stop. the only difference from family is we're handing over the money to someone who is supposed to have a magical answer. i always blame myself first for being the one to call when i was in a shit situation. it was my decision to call and want to hear things to make me feel good cuz i was addicted to the drug of hope. i'm not saying it's even false hope, saying tho that even bad situations can have small pockets of hope if we look hard enough and the small hope isn't enough for us. i know i had 2 readers tell me my situation was gonna stay shit and i was mad and sad but you know i still stayed. and i still called. i blame myself first not because i am beating myself up but because i was addicted and not ready to leave. when i stopped calling them i had to sit with the reality of personal choice and that's the hardest thing i think.
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