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Aaron0326:
I read with zadalia for the second time tonight. I have to admit the reading made me more anxious than anything because there were aspects that she was absolutely correct on but others that I’m just not so sure about. Back story: My SO broke up with me last week after dating for a few months. She had a very specific issue with me not taking things seriously - I kinda bailed on her last minute on two occasions(I wasn’t feeling well and was exhausted but nevertheless). After the first occasion, my SO was upset and made it very clear that wasn’t cool with her. She said she needed that kind of stuff to not happen. Well I kinda did it again two weeks ago. She broke up with me a week later. other than that, the relationship was fine and we were pretty good to each other. Zadalia seemed to want to take all the blame away from me and say that my GF was just using these instances as an excuse because she wasn’t sure the relationship was what she wanted Plus she feels there was another guy around. Not discounting there could’ve been another guy around but i have a really hard time thinking I didn’t have a major play in the break up. Just more confused now.
Yaz88:
--- Quote from: Aaron0326 on December 21, 2019, 12:32:50 AM ---I read with zadalia for the second time tonight. I have to admit the reading made me more anxious than anything because there were aspects that she was absolutely correct on but others that I’m just not so sure about. Back story: My SO broke up with me last week after dating for a few months. She had a very specific issue with me not taking things seriously - I kinda bailed on her last minute on two occasions(I wasn’t feeling well and was exhausted but nevertheless). After the first occasion, my SO was upset and made it very clear that wasn’t cool with her. She said she needed that kind of stuff to not happen. Well I kinda did it again two weeks ago. She broke up with me a week later. other than that, the relationship was fine and we were pretty good to each other. Zadalia seemed to want to take all the blame away from me and say that my GF was just using these instances as an excuse because she wasn’t sure the relationship was what she wanted Plus she feels there was another guy around. Not discounting there could’ve been another guy around but i have a really hard time thinking I didn’t have a major play in the break up. Just more confused now.
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I guess I’m a complete flake, so if someone bails on me, I really can’t complain since I tend to do the same thing unless it’s a super important occasion. So I may be downplaying your behavior. It really depends on how important the event was that you bailed on. I do know that it is human nature that when you really like someone you tend to let things slide. Apparently, she didn’t let the last flake out slide. Either you bailed on something that really meant something to her and it made her think you didn’t consider her a priority OR she used it as a convenient excuse to end it with you. You mess up twice, see ya and def don’t want to be with ya kind of mentality. If you apologized and it was sincere and she won’t work it out with you, I’d say Z is probably correct.
Aaron0326:
my ex was definitely not out of line for thinking I was not taking the relationship seriously on a few occasions but I also didn’t just bail on said occasions - it’s a nuanced situation. I’m not discounting that they were excuses to some extent but i also have a hard time accepting that they weren’t at least in part directly responsible for the breakup. My gf was clearly upset on both occasions and she has high standards. She made it known a good month and a half before the breakup that she needed to see more effort. I know this probably sounds confusing and over the top. I’m just venting.
Smmcoffman:
She is a very good reader, but she need breaks from time to time. I don’t blame her
dasaninot:
Well my last prediction was from Zadalia and it did not pass. I know everyone says not to rely on her for timing but even the feeling part was fairy tale because in all these months, my POI has never once clicked on my link. So I'm scratching off everyone. And I'm done and truly fed up with psychics.
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