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icloud9:
--- Quote from: attaboy on December 06, 2018, 08:12:57 AM ---
--- Quote from: icloud9 on December 06, 2018, 07:36:06 AM ---I mean the cheating thing was about three years ago so i feel i'm healed from that, but thank you for your kind words. well my situation is kinda different from yours, though. I'M the one that LEFT the relationship, not him. I dumped him, so it's not that "HE" came back around, I'm the one that did. I just wanted to see where things could go, and maybe if we could just take a slow approach and start somewhere over. Like i said i still had love for him. But, ultimately, I decided that I didn't want to "BE" with him.
And yes he still does want to be with me but i honestly don't care lol i don't want to be with him. haha.
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Still, regardless of when the cheating event happened it's something that carries with you always. That is what I have found out. Even though we do move on from it and get over it, it's always, just......there.
I might have not stated things clearly earlier in my previous posts....My POI was the one that left me. So just like you left your ex, she left me.
So you were the dumper and you were the one to initiate contact after you left him? In my case she was the dumper. LP and Zadalia picked up she would be the one to initiate contact once again. That is why I keep harping on the fact that if she initiates contact it's likely that she has some level of interest. Typically we don't reinitiate contact with ex partners unless there is some level of interest there. Especially for women, if their interest is not above a 5 on a 10 point scale then odds are they won't reach out to the guy.
You even stated that you went back to your ex to see where things could go. So, perhaps this is what my POI may be planning as well...LP and Zadalia may have picked this up and possibly that is what they are trying to communicate.
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well, in my opinion, if it's an ex, without a doubt you are going to still have SOME level of feelings for that person. When I contacted my ex though, I wouldn't describe my intention as me having "a level of interest"..as in, it was not "I'm still interested in you" but rather that it was the memories we shared together as a couple and also just missing him as a person. Although he really did hurt me and I lost all my trust for him, I still loved him and didn't want to lose him as a person. But I don't recall having the thoughts of "maybe we can try again" vividly. This isn't to say that I wasn't open to the idea of another chance, but consciously speaking, I just couldn't see myself with him in a long term future.....(which is why I called off the wedding lol) So I guess yes, you could say that in my head I was "confused," - like what your ex may be feeling right now as Lady P and Z describe - but then I was also not. because I was still quite sure that I did NOT have the CONSCIOUS intention of wanting my ex back.
LAW1974:
@attaboy - If you're confused about the reading, send Zadalia an email. She might remember and be able to clarify. Shes literally the most ethical reader I know. She will respond even if she doesnt remember or cant decipher for you:)
Fidget1028:
Just to jump in here, DO NOT hold Zadalia to timelines. She is an excellent empath, and I have no doubt that what she said will happen, BUT she openly admits that she sucks at timelines. She bases it on the current feelings at the moment. It could happen in 2 months, but it could be 4 months. Empaths are not psychics and the timelines can sometimes be right, but more often than not, they are rough estimates.
LAW1974:
--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on December 06, 2018, 11:34:18 AM ---Just to jump in here, DO NOT hold Zadalia to timelines. She is an excellent empath, and I have no doubt that what she said will happen, BUT she openly admits that she sucks at timelines. She bases it on the current feelings at the moment. It could happen in 2 months, but it could be 4 months. Empaths are not psychics and the timelines can sometimes be right, but more often than not, they are rough estimates.
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^^^^ yes! I am actually surprised she gave you so many solid timelines she usually doesnt even like to do that -- she admits every call I suck at them:) But trust what she says will happen....
Fidget1028:
--- Quote from: LAW1974 on December 06, 2018, 11:58:48 AM ---
--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on December 06, 2018, 11:34:18 AM ---Just to jump in here, DO NOT hold Zadalia to timelines. She is an excellent empath, and I have no doubt that what she said will happen, BUT she openly admits that she sucks at timelines. She bases it on the current feelings at the moment. It could happen in 2 months, but it could be 4 months. Empaths are not psychics and the timelines can sometimes be right, but more often than not, they are rough estimates.
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^^^^ yes! I am actually surprised she gave you so many solid timelines she usually doesnt even like to do that -- she admits every call I suck at them:) But trust what she says will happen....
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Yeah, my POI is a slow mover. Z tells me there will be more communication over the next month and it may be realistically over the next 6 months. Some people act immediately on their current feelings. Other people, like my POI, will overthink things, drag their feet, flip flop, and basically take forever to progress.
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