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Zadalia
Fidget1028:
Yeah, it's very true. You can have feelings and never act on them and even that can change from day to day. Empaths can give you an idea of how they think someone will act based on their energy at that moment, and it could happen, but there's no guarantee.
star1:
--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on November 03, 2018, 11:00:25 PM ---Yeah, it's very true. You can have feelings and never act on them and even that can change from day to day. Empaths can give you an idea of how they think someone will act based on their energy at that moment, and it could happen, but there's no guarantee.
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Completely agree.
LAW1974:
--- Quote from: star1 on November 03, 2018, 10:11:22 PM ---I just wanted to say something about Zadalia that she told me in a message response the other day, incase people were worrying about their readings with her and stuck. When she gave me my free mins to test if we connected, she really made it clear that alot of the time, she'll pick up that somebody has feelings for someone, but externally - nothing happens which is very common. Now, obviously some guys just really don't care and are having a lovely time gallivanting with another women/other women, the reader got it so damn wrong. But sometimes that is the case that your ex might care, but he might have lots of issues going on, and as humans - we all react differently to situations.
Some men are runners and they find it easier to push their feelings for you down and be with someone else. I know that this has been said thousands of times on this board already, I just thought it might make some people understand better that have recently joined or are really hopeless. Especially after talking to people and hearing individual stories on here.. Of course, it's still not good enough that the ex hasn't come back and you'd think that the ex would do more if he cared (I feel the same way), but all men are wired differently. You might have hurt your guy, or the woman before you, and his easier route is to be a player and jump from woman to woman to hide his feelings from you and avoid the pain (not that being a player is right or deserves defending), or be back and forth with you. Sometimes, we simply logically can't explain the reason why "if he cared, why'd he do that?", but that other person may have other reasons and motives behind their actions.
So just because an empath you read with sensed that a guy had feelings for you but he didn't act upon it - doesn't mean subconsciously he doesn't feel a thing for you, and that's why empaths can read a person well, but cannot usually predict. And I'm not defending all readers as often times they get it embarrassingly wrong, and they do come out with the most typical of stock statements and ludicrous "burn this candle to get him back" advice. I'm definitely not defending readers, but I'm also not saying they're all phoneys and fairytellers.
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^^^^^THIS is sooo true! perfectly written:). And the truth is we have to look in ourselves and value ourselves, why do we want him if hes that broken anyways and he cant give us a relationship we deserve? This is what I am trying to tell myself as I move on..... My guys ex wife cheated on him so he's all kinds of F'd up as you can imagine and runs when he gets close!
LAW1974:
Any updates on Zadalia? This is a really LONG string and so I figured some ppl could update? I know timelines are NOT her thing but have some predictions come to pass?
Fidget1028:
--- Quote from: LAW1974 on November 26, 2018, 12:56:08 PM ---Any updates on Zadalia? This is a really LONG string and so I figured some ppl could update? I know timelines are NOT her thing but have some predictions come to pass?
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I'm waiting to read with her today for an update. I reached out to my POI on Thanksgiving (after 6 months of no communication), just to wish him a Happy Thanksgiving. He texted back immediately (which I was pretty surprised about), and it was cordial. After having a huge fall out in May, part of which was my fault for being frustrated and angry, I didn't expect anything at all. Z told me a month ago that he has strong feelings, but isn't acting on them. She felt it would move forward by January, but again, she is usually (and admittedly) off on timelines. I figured I would take the leap of faith to get the ball rolling and if I didn't get a response, then I would know where I stand. I want to see now if it was just a "courtesy" response from him or whether maybe it kickstarted something.
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