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How long do you guys read for and how much info do you give them?
Rediska:
Hi
1)How long do you read for to get a good, accurate reading?
2)Do you explain the situation beforehand or how do you go about asking them questions?
sunshineluv7:
I will usually talk for 15-20. Depends on the platform though, call vs. chat. I can't hang up on calls because I feel like a jerk. It also depends on the reader, some people are very cut and dry and others will go on and on and are chatty cathy's.
Basically, if I don't feel like they are completely off base, I ask all the questions I have - which usually takes 15-20 minutes.
Rediska:
--- Quote from: x on December 29, 2016, 03:09:31 AM ---Start off short. If they haven't wowed you within 2 minutes, then end the call. Don't tell them anything. Beware of using a reader more than once and starting to leak them info.
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My local reader did that to me a long time ago. She was the most inconsistent reader I ever dealt with so I stopped going to her.
Rediska:
--- Quote from: sunshineluv7 on December 29, 2016, 04:03:24 AM ---I will usually talk for 15-20. Depends on the platform though, call vs. chat. I can't hang up on calls because I feel like a jerk. It also depends on the reader, some people are very cut and dry and others will go on and on and are chatty cathy's.
Basically, if I don't feel like they are completely off base, I ask all the questions I have - which usually takes 15-20 minutes.
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Yeah, I feel like 15-20 minutes is good.
No, you should cut them off and not feel bad lol. It isn't fair to you if they are going off topic or if they are being very off. They are intentionally or unintentionally eating your minutes. I had one start giving me advice and I just hung up on her. She was also a chatty cathy and it was wasting my minutes.
Rediska:
--- Quote from: Presence on December 29, 2016, 04:54:50 AM ---Call length depends on the price, the psychic, and the reason why I called.
When I ask a question, I try to be fair by giving some details in the form of a specific question. I don't want to play test the psychic, but I don't want to give enough info that encourages them to immediately make judgements either.
Rather than asking, "How does Bob feel about me?" I'll say something like, "There's someone I've been dating for the past few months. I don't get to see him as much as I want to because of his work schedule. Can you get a sense of how he feels about me, where things are headed, and if we'll spend more time together?"
If there is one thing I've learned over the years it's to not go into great detail. Say Bob was married and seeing me on the side. Either I'd get disapproval wrapped in stern advice and no answers to my questions or I'd get the story of the time the reader dated a married man and what happened with them.
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Oh wow, thank you! that was detailed. And yeah, I have been guilty of asking how so and so has been feeling about me without giving them much details. And yes, I too have had readers tell me their own experiences and it is so annoying!
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