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HopefulHeart:
I agree!! haha and seriously; if a guy you never talk to out of nowhere is texting you at 11pm saying "heyyy"... they dont have anything good in mind lol. I had one of these guys text me at 11:30pm a few weeks back with a "heyy whats up". I was JUST heading to bed, and sick of his crap and honestly PMSing. So... instead of ignoring it like I should have I responded with "at half to midnight? the moon is up..I certainly shouldnt be. and with that, good night." He told me that he'd seen the green dot on my name and knew I was up and wanted company"

like really dude!? really?! when have I ever made myself out to be like that? (Honestly, I haven't. I'm a good girl lol. I don't sleep around and never have. I don't date around. I dont post provocative pictures... none of this). Unfortunately a lot of dudes (not all, but a lot) just think everyone is up to sleeping around. It's so disrespectful!!!

I  just remembered too while sharing this story that I had a stage 5 clinger for a while too (Wedding Crashers anyone?). He was the friend of that ex from YEARS ago (that one that was an abusive jerk that I did end up getting back together with once but he cheated?). Out of the blue he started texting me always with a "heyy" with varying amounts of y's. Some days I'd answer. Some I wouldnt. if I did it'd be a Hi back and the conversations never went past work and the weather. Until one day when I asked him why he's always texting me and he goes "I dunno...You're good looking, I'm good looking.  I want to have some funnnn :) :) :)" you can bet I tore him a new one after that. And yet he still tried!!! For months and months, every few weeks I'd get a "heyy". I never answered. Knock on wood he finally stopped a few months ago. ... of course now I've jinxed it because watch him text me lol.

and yes for sure; slow and steady wins the race haha.

sunshineluv7:
Simple  because you raised your vibration and are attracting love.  Remember,  you attract more bees with honey than vinegar,  that type of thing. Plus it's cuffing season.

lashes:
OMG this is exactly whats happening to me!!!  All of a sudden my phone is going off like crazy -  with everyone but the one I want! I honestly think it has to do with the Law of Attraction. When we want something soo bad its like it cant come to us because in reality we are hyperfocused on the lack of them being there (at least thats how I am) and all that energy is energetically repelling them vs drawing them in. 

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