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Lovefash67:
I coming to the realization and just accepting the fact that my ex is not coming back and I'm fine with that. Why should I want someone who said very mean things to me and the entire relationship I have don't nothing wrong but go out of my way, spend lots of money and time invested for a person to break up with me constantly over nothing and every single time he left me I was in a crisis and needed him for support. If I say something mean to someone that I love I will it wait a whole month and half or more to apologize . So I am now accepting wheat he said that he doesn't love me anymore or find me attractive anymore as face value. I didn't deserve for him to treat me like s*** for four years. Wasted my college years on him and I should have let him go when he left me the first time I probably could have met the man of dreams at college who wasn't selfish and cared only about himself ,money , and what others can do for him. I can only be upset with myself . All the readers say that my ex had issues and it's not because of me but when someone treats you horrible it's hard not to take it personal or feel your not good enough but I have taken off the pedestal and I know that I was a good girlfriend and gave it my all.
I'm tired of reading with psychics about him and just over this situation just done , it's too much for me.

bluebelle:
It's a sad realization but I think a lot of women have gone through this...we give and give and get crap or very little in return, and we justify it somehow.  then, if you get readings, they give you all these theories, like he's been hurt, has issues, etc...but NOT OUR PROBLEM!  it's very hard not to take personally but at the end of the day, you just have to pity them, and realize it was their loss, and someone better is out there and we will see that once we stop focusing on the wrong person and open ourselves up to the right one.

Lovefash67:
Exactly ! It's not my problem that he has been hurt and has  insecurities . We all have those things. So far right now no reader who predicted positive things has been right and I honestly can't see this thing turning around by December like hey are saying . So Kiesha is right and was right from the get go. It will officially be a year since we have broken up in December and there's no turning back I'm going to continue to focus on school and then eventually focus on my love life.

bluebelle:

--- Quote from: Lovefash67 on September 08, 2016, 05:54:59 PM ---Exactly ! It's not my problem that he has been hurt and has  insecurities . We all have those things. So far right now no reader who predicted positive things has been right and I honestly can't see this thing turning around by December like hey are saying . So Kiesha is right and was right from the get go. It will officially be a year since we have broken up in December and there's no turning back I'm going to continue to focus on school and then eventually focus on my love life.

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yep Keisha told me no long term future for me too...looks like she was right, but she tends to be very negative with predictions re: love anyway....

Lovefash67:
Yeah your right she is negative . I thought Dominique from cup and Leo even sincerity were good picking up on past present and what's been going on and since they've worked for others I was hoping the same but it is looking like they are wrong and positive prediction is not going to happen.

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