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False predictions
Zenia:
--- Quote from: tired of it all on July 05, 2016, 06:45:22 PM ---
Most of the male readers have usually given me advice like: DON'T contact him, don't ask any friends about him, don't post anything where he can see it or only post happy things, don't let him know that you miss him, let him come to you. All that might have been good advice if I had followed it. :-\
Female readers have tended to give me advice like...suggestions on how and when to contact, tell him how you feel...pretty much every time I have followed advice like that it has blown up in my face.
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This is intresting.I think the male advice are far better actually.You know the good old "Mars and Venus"books?They totally pointed out exactly this. :)
Yes,female advice about telling him how you feel,can be a total miss.And to seduce him and so on.That has never worked for me.
Leogirl0808:
There is a male psychic people rave about "psychic Andrew", what a wacko he is. He calls himself psychic Romeo... he drags on to talk for you to add money and usually says "did that happen"
Um, you tell me. He writes blogs, there is one on how to get your man to call or take you on a date.
tired of it all:
If I could go back and do things over, I'd probably follow more of the male readers' advice...and definitely ignore some of the advice I got from female readers.
Melody Marie has been the exception, she has given me great advice on many different things. What she has told me regarding past hurts, is sometimes it is better to just let things rest and not talk about it anymore.
tired of it all:
--- Quote from: Presence on July 05, 2016, 06:39:27 PM ---If your guy has come back, see that as a sign that it isn't about you having to go through more heartache, that maybe, this time, YOU will decide the fate of this relationship based on what YOU, and only YOU, feels is the right thing for you to do in this moment.
We're here for you!
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This too.
allibai3:
Thank you guys so much for all your advice and support.I feel bad about making up the imaginary guy smh lol. @Presence you are right!I do want him to make it better ,I am hurting a lot and all I want him to do is make it all go away and make it better and it hurts to see that he is being dismissive which is most likely because he does not know what to say. He gets defensive because he doesn't know how to put things into words.I just want him to make it all better and erase the way I am feeling by showing me that he really loves me like he says he does which is by stop trying to put me in limbo and control everything and wake the hell up.
@Leo
when he came back in March apologizing I cut things off telling him he needed to figure what he wanted.Him telling him that he figured out what he wanted made me believe that he thought things through all aspects which also meant getting back into a relationship. Him telling me to let things flow shows me that he did not do anything.
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