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allibai3:
@Sooshi he has said that before if you love someone you dont move on so quickly but honestly I don't get how he can come back after this after all that he has said.Hes being very spiteful.I don't know.I know for sure that we will never speak or be together again.

allibai3:
I have been reading with Keisha since January and she had always said that he loved me but we won't be together. So idk of that will change after 6 months . I have not talked to Domnique. I don't see the point in talking to readers anymore. He chose to not only walk away but hurt me and right now I can't phamon him coming back and making things right

tired of it all:
Allibai I'm so sorry that you are hurting.  What he said was mean and you didn't deserve that, and especially not after going all that way to see him. 

But it's not a question of deserving, it's more that there are natural consequences to the actions that we take.  When you phone/text a guy while you are drunk - and you're saying that you're done and insulting his male ego - after already saying that you're seeing someone else??  This is what happens.  Most people tend to hurt someone back when they feel hurt or feel the need to protect themselves from rejection.  You've given him mixed signals, he doesn't even know why you bothered coming out all that way to see him if you're telling him that you're involved with someone else.  It's natural that he would respond the way he did. 

allibai3:
@tiredofitall , I didn't think of it that way. I wAs upset that after seeing him he started distancing himself from me last week he asked me how I felt after seeing him I said I was scared and confused because I do want him but I'm scared to get my heart broken so instead of him saying how he felt after my message he decided not to express himself and went m.i.a for a whole week till I texted him. I wanted him to fight for me . So I didn't think of hurting his ego because I was hurting and even though I dating another guy all I want is my ex but i don't want the pain he causes me. I want to do everything to make him happy and make h feel loved but he keeps sabotaging . You are right I didn't see it from that perspective and that was selfish

tired of it all:
I understand allibai and I mean wow I have been there, not the exact situation but you know wanting someone to fight for me and being scared they won't and that I'll just keep getting hurt.  And I don't know what all he has put you through up to this point so I don't know maybe you are right to be selfish at this point.  I got to a point with my situation where I felt like I had to be selfish and protect myself.  You know the situation best and it is your choice always, no right or wrong here.

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