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hope4love:

--- Quote from: tired of it all on June 25, 2016, 08:37:33 PM ---
--- Quote from: hope4love on June 25, 2016, 07:27:36 PM ---You all deserve love and peace in your lives; do what's good for you regardless of the other person. 

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That IS what I'm doing.  I'm looking out for myself now, and I have become downright militant about doing what's right for me and taking care of myself.  So even if he comes back, I don't know if I can be in a relationship again.  I feel like all of this has changed me and made me a lot more self-centered than I used to be. 

I wish some of you would stop trying to equate things like we're all in the same situation.  There are similarities and common themes, but there are a lot of differences too, which you wouldn't know unless you're standing in someone's shoes.  I am quite capable of understanding for myself what "my" (not "our") message from the Universe is.

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I was only trying to be supportive and you're entitled to your perspective and feelings. There is no need to be on the offensive/defensive because only you know your situation and there is no need to lash out at people on the forum either.  I have no wish to get into a flame war and I will not respond further to your posts. 

tired of it all:
It's not supportive so I thank you for not replying anymore. 

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