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tired of it all:
Even if things work out for me and some of these predictions finally come to pass, I feel traumatized by what I've been through in the meantime.  I don't know what's worse, the way my ex shut me out, or the way some of these readers have jerked me up and down with their crazy nonsense.  Even if he comes back...or even if I meet someone else...I don't know if *I* can be in a relationship anymore after going through all this.  I don't know if I would be up to taking on a new job either.  What I've been through has affected my health, set me way back financially, and put me through so much emotional devastation I just feel like I will never be the same again.  When I think about it I just feel sick and I really can't believe it has gone down like this. 

tired of it all:
No response?  gee thanks

Sooshi:
Sorry. I read what you wrote and I can relate and I feel for you, but I'm terrible with verbally reassuring people emotionally. I rationalize everything and I've learned that people that are on the feeler end of the feeler/thinker spectrum don't often find what I have to say meaningful or helpful at all. If I were good at that sort of thing, maybe my ex wouldn't be my ex.

tired of it all:
Thanks Sooshi.  It feels bad if people don't respond.  Other people here can post if they are having a rough time and they get responses.  It's not nice to ignore people.  I don't think people even read my posts because they keep asking questions that I've already answered in previous posts.

bstalling:
Consider some therapy at this point. If you are feeling scarred for life, you have to make practical measures to fix that, because predictions happening as you want them won't heal that (trust me). In all honestly, I think thats what most of us need anyway.

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