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flora0250:
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--- Quote from: flora0250 on July 25, 2019, 11:40:42 PM ---Just bumping this up. Decided to give her a try and at first I’m listening like okay wow I guess you’re really going to sell me this fairy tale and I’m saying to myself okay well maybe you’re right but I don’t believe you at all ...
Then she whips out.... “but he was seeing someone.... and if I ask is he still seeing someone the answer is yes, he definitely is... “ then continues to tell me fairy tale ish things .... that he can’t stop thinking about me and that it’s a bit of an interference.
Here’s the thing.
When we broke up he wanted to be friends. Then one of the times I reached out afterwards he agreed that he wanted to get together for a “coffee or something” once his work slowed down... but then we didn’t.
When we broke up we talked A LOT about how he always maintained his friendships ... and considering how well HE even said we connected I was shocked that I just never ever heard from him again. Ever.
So call me crazy but the only thing I can think is that the woman he started seeing knew about me and knew how much he had felt for me and doesn’t want him to be in touch with me. And ever since I’ve known he’s been seeing someone I never reached out because I just wouldn’t go there. I wouldn’t interfere like that.
Anyway so.... the optimist in me thinks.... well... maybe she IS right. And maybe a bunch of the others who have told me he misses me are right.
Of course the pessimist in me says no you’re being taken for a ride.
And the realist who I most try to remember says okay just be in the present and see it for what it is. Regardless if he does or doesn’t think of you blah blah blah he’s not WITH you NOW. So be in the now. And she was adamant about not putting my life on hold.
As others have said every one of them have said do not put your life on hold for this man. And I’m not it’s just that no one’s caught my eye really. Well... one guy kinda recently but ... it’s not really a conducive situation to getting to know him. But maybe.
But anyway. Yeah so she EASILY picked up the third party factor for whatever that’s worth.
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I would take the advice of the reader who said to focus on the now. Nobody really knows for sure what the future will bring, so it's best to focus on the now and that he isn't around you. You're doing the right thing by keeping options open. Readers have been known to get future and feelings really wrong and not to be rude but this guy could have stood up a little if she was controlling his contact with you and said "no, I wanna stay friends with Flora". Unless he is a bit of a pushover? Only you'd know that. But from my experience if a guy wants to keep contact with someone from the past he will find any way. I was talking to someone recently and my gut said his ex is still about and I was proven right, and he just would not let her go and he made up excuses for why he had to keep in touch etc etc.
He may well come in at some point, but you don't know what he may put on the table for you. It could be months or years more and he could only offer friendship again, or have baggage from this relationship if it's unhealthy or unhappy as she is already possibly controlling his contact with you.
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Thanks as always Star!
Star_01:
--- Quote from: flora0250 on July 26, 2019, 01:37:03 PM ---
--- Quote from: Star_01 on July 26, 2019, 01:11:06 PM ---
--- Quote from: flora0250 on July 25, 2019, 11:40:42 PM ---Just bumping this up. Decided to give her a try and at first I’m listening like okay wow I guess you’re really going to sell me this fairy tale and I’m saying to myself okay well maybe you’re right but I don’t believe you at all ...
Then she whips out.... “but he was seeing someone.... and if I ask is he still seeing someone the answer is yes, he definitely is... “ then continues to tell me fairy tale ish things .... that he can’t stop thinking about me and that it’s a bit of an interference.
Here’s the thing.
When we broke up he wanted to be friends. Then one of the times I reached out afterwards he agreed that he wanted to get together for a “coffee or something” once his work slowed down... but then we didn’t.
When we broke up we talked A LOT about how he always maintained his friendships ... and considering how well HE even said we connected I was shocked that I just never ever heard from him again. Ever.
So call me crazy but the only thing I can think is that the woman he started seeing knew about me and knew how much he had felt for me and doesn’t want him to be in touch with me. And ever since I’ve known he’s been seeing someone I never reached out because I just wouldn’t go there. I wouldn’t interfere like that.
Anyway so.... the optimist in me thinks.... well... maybe she IS right. And maybe a bunch of the others who have told me he misses me are right.
Of course the pessimist in me says no you’re being taken for a ride.
And the realist who I most try to remember says okay just be in the present and see it for what it is. Regardless if he does or doesn’t think of you blah blah blah he’s not WITH you NOW. So be in the now. And she was adamant about not putting my life on hold.
As others have said every one of them have said do not put your life on hold for this man. And I’m not it’s just that no one’s caught my eye really. Well... one guy kinda recently but ... it’s not really a conducive situation to getting to know him. But maybe.
But anyway. Yeah so she EASILY picked up the third party factor for whatever that’s worth.
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I would take the advice of the reader who said to focus on the now. Nobody really knows for sure what the future will bring, so it's best to focus on the now and that he isn't around you. You're doing the right thing by keeping options open. Readers have been known to get future and feelings really wrong and not to be rude but this guy could have stood up a little if she was controlling his contact with you and said "no, I wanna stay friends with Flora". Unless he is a bit of a pushover? Only you'd know that. But from my experience if a guy wants to keep contact with someone from the past he will find any way. I was talking to someone recently and my gut said his ex is still about and I was proven right, and he just would not let her go and he made up excuses for why he had to keep in touch etc etc.
He may well come in at some point, but you don't know what he may put on the table for you. It could be months or years more and he could only offer friendship again, or have baggage from this relationship if it's unhealthy or unhappy as she is already possibly controlling his contact with you.
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Thanks as always Star!
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No problem, you've said your gut is telling you he will return at some point so I would believe in that, hopefully he comes forth wanting what you want but there is no guarantee so just protest yourself.
flora0250:
--- Quote from: Star_01 on July 26, 2019, 01:47:08 PM ---
--- Quote from: flora0250 on July 26, 2019, 01:37:03 PM ---
--- Quote from: Star_01 on July 26, 2019, 01:11:06 PM ---
--- Quote from: flora0250 on July 25, 2019, 11:40:42 PM ---Just bumping this up. Decided to give her a try and at first I’m listening like okay wow I guess you’re really going to sell me this fairy tale and I’m saying to myself okay well maybe you’re right but I don’t believe you at all ...
Then she whips out.... “but he was seeing someone.... and if I ask is he still seeing someone the answer is yes, he definitely is... “ then continues to tell me fairy tale ish things .... that he can’t stop thinking about me and that it’s a bit of an interference.
Here’s the thing.
When we broke up he wanted to be friends. Then one of the times I reached out afterwards he agreed that he wanted to get together for a “coffee or something” once his work slowed down... but then we didn’t.
When we broke up we talked A LOT about how he always maintained his friendships ... and considering how well HE even said we connected I was shocked that I just never ever heard from him again. Ever.
So call me crazy but the only thing I can think is that the woman he started seeing knew about me and knew how much he had felt for me and doesn’t want him to be in touch with me. And ever since I’ve known he’s been seeing someone I never reached out because I just wouldn’t go there. I wouldn’t interfere like that.
Anyway so.... the optimist in me thinks.... well... maybe she IS right. And maybe a bunch of the others who have told me he misses me are right.
Of course the pessimist in me says no you’re being taken for a ride.
And the realist who I most try to remember says okay just be in the present and see it for what it is. Regardless if he does or doesn’t think of you blah blah blah he’s not WITH you NOW. So be in the now. And she was adamant about not putting my life on hold.
As others have said every one of them have said do not put your life on hold for this man. And I’m not it’s just that no one’s caught my eye really. Well... one guy kinda recently but ... it’s not really a conducive situation to getting to know him. But maybe.
But anyway. Yeah so she EASILY picked up the third party factor for whatever that’s worth.
--- End quote ---
I would take the advice of the reader who said to focus on the now. Nobody really knows for sure what the future will bring, so it's best to focus on the now and that he isn't around you. You're doing the right thing by keeping options open. Readers have been known to get future and feelings really wrong and not to be rude but this guy could have stood up a little if she was controlling his contact with you and said "no, I wanna stay friends with Flora". Unless he is a bit of a pushover? Only you'd know that. But from my experience if a guy wants to keep contact with someone from the past he will find any way. I was talking to someone recently and my gut said his ex is still about and I was proven right, and he just would not let her go and he made up excuses for why he had to keep in touch etc etc.
He may well come in at some point, but you don't know what he may put on the table for you. It could be months or years more and he could only offer friendship again, or have baggage from this relationship if it's unhealthy or unhappy as she is already possibly controlling his contact with you.
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Thanks as always Star!
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No problem, you've said your gut is telling you he will return at some point so I would believe in that, hopefully he comes forth wanting what you want but there is no guarantee so just protest yourself.
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Thanks again I know - you are right and I am going to take a good break from readings again for a while now. I just posted on another reader. But yes I totally get you and am moving on once I find someone who I like who likes me! Thank you!!
Star_01:
--- Quote from: flora0250 on July 26, 2019, 02:39:29 PM ---
--- Quote from: Star_01 on July 26, 2019, 01:47:08 PM ---
--- Quote from: flora0250 on July 26, 2019, 01:37:03 PM ---
--- Quote from: Star_01 on July 26, 2019, 01:11:06 PM ---
--- Quote from: flora0250 on July 25, 2019, 11:40:42 PM ---Just bumping this up. Decided to give her a try and at first I’m listening like okay wow I guess you’re really going to sell me this fairy tale and I’m saying to myself okay well maybe you’re right but I don’t believe you at all ...
Then she whips out.... “but he was seeing someone.... and if I ask is he still seeing someone the answer is yes, he definitely is... “ then continues to tell me fairy tale ish things .... that he can’t stop thinking about me and that it’s a bit of an interference.
Here’s the thing.
When we broke up he wanted to be friends. Then one of the times I reached out afterwards he agreed that he wanted to get together for a “coffee or something” once his work slowed down... but then we didn’t.
When we broke up we talked A LOT about how he always maintained his friendships ... and considering how well HE even said we connected I was shocked that I just never ever heard from him again. Ever.
So call me crazy but the only thing I can think is that the woman he started seeing knew about me and knew how much he had felt for me and doesn’t want him to be in touch with me. And ever since I’ve known he’s been seeing someone I never reached out because I just wouldn’t go there. I wouldn’t interfere like that.
Anyway so.... the optimist in me thinks.... well... maybe she IS right. And maybe a bunch of the others who have told me he misses me are right.
Of course the pessimist in me says no you’re being taken for a ride.
And the realist who I most try to remember says okay just be in the present and see it for what it is. Regardless if he does or doesn’t think of you blah blah blah he’s not WITH you NOW. So be in the now. And she was adamant about not putting my life on hold.
As others have said every one of them have said do not put your life on hold for this man. And I’m not it’s just that no one’s caught my eye really. Well... one guy kinda recently but ... it’s not really a conducive situation to getting to know him. But maybe.
But anyway. Yeah so she EASILY picked up the third party factor for whatever that’s worth.
--- End quote ---
I would take the advice of the reader who said to focus on the now. Nobody really knows for sure what the future will bring, so it's best to focus on the now and that he isn't around you. You're doing the right thing by keeping options open. Readers have been known to get future and feelings really wrong and not to be rude but this guy could have stood up a little if she was controlling his contact with you and said "no, I wanna stay friends with Flora". Unless he is a bit of a pushover? Only you'd know that. But from my experience if a guy wants to keep contact with someone from the past he will find any way. I was talking to someone recently and my gut said his ex is still about and I was proven right, and he just would not let her go and he made up excuses for why he had to keep in touch etc etc.
He may well come in at some point, but you don't know what he may put on the table for you. It could be months or years more and he could only offer friendship again, or have baggage from this relationship if it's unhealthy or unhappy as she is already possibly controlling his contact with you.
--- End quote ---
Thanks as always Star!
--- End quote ---
No problem, you've said your gut is telling you he will return at some point so I would believe in that, hopefully he comes forth wanting what you want but there is no guarantee so just protest yourself.
--- End quote ---
Thanks again I know - you are right and I am going to take a good break from readings again for a while now. I just posted on another reader. But yes I totally get you and am moving on once I find someone who I like who likes me! Thank you!!
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Best of luck, it's hard to break the cycle.
HazelYella:
This woman is NOT psychic. She guesses and repeats
whatever you say.
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