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JUDIs Inner Light
bluebelle:
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--- Quote from: Presence on June 07, 2016, 03:43:28 AM ---As a side note: Does that drive anyone else crazy? A psychic shares all these details about what's going on with someone, you're dying of curiosity to know if it really is how things are, and you realize you may never get the chance to know?
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Yes! Yes this drives me nuts! I mean it really is too much sometimes, and it just feels like I have all this information hanging over my head and I don't know whether to believe it or not. It's better when they give at least one thing I can verify so that helps me believe the rest of it.
--- Quote ---I noticed, she would say something, ask me for clarification, and when I further explained, would adjust which she had previously said to align with the details I just gave her.
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This doesn't surprise me. She did that with me sometimes, but the opposite also happened, where she would NOT align the reading to what I told her and as a result it would go off track.
Oh, I remember a few other readers talking about my ex's "job"...and I'd be like, um, he doesn't work...and they would just keep trying to make it fit whatever I told them. Looking back this always should have been a red flag they were just guessing at things, "his job is stressing him out" lol.
Sorry it wasn't a good experience for you, but I'm so glad you shared this. I always felt like there must be something wrong with me if Judi was so great for other people and not for me.
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This is very hard to deal with, the fact that you can never really confirm lots of things these people tell you. It's like I HAVE gotten little validations but I need more than that.
Listen, if anything that these readers told me comes to pass, I will come back here screaming from the rooftops...but it seems, for the most part, we are all waiting in limbo. Not a good feeling...I have decided to move on from my situation. I got one final reading this morning, and that's it for me. I need to save my money/emotional health and stop with this. If this was any other person, I would have moved on but these readings have me clinging to something that will probably never happen...and I deserve better than that. MUCH better. and so do all of you.
Leogirl0808:
I have to agree even though I do feel she is gifted, it's hard verify what someone is thinking or feeling. She did nail one thing that the person said that she told me in a reading few weeks ago. She kept saying that and they actually did say that but in a different way meaning not in exact word for work. Should I then believe her very first reading with me? That now had not been said.
bstalling:
--- Quote from: Presence on June 07, 2016, 03:43:28 AM ---So I got a reading with Judi today because you guys were raving about her, her line was long, and I was damn curious.
I have to admit; I wasn't impressed.
I have to preface this by saying: Previous to a couple of weeks ago, I had cut the energy cord with the guy I keep asking readers about. I was feeling good and focusing on other things that have been going really well in my life. But when I came here, read about various readers I was curious to try, I really didn't have anything to ask. So I asked about him.
And asking about him brought back the past preoccupation I had with him. I think, at this point, I am so tired of asking about whether he will reappear and why he hasn't, that, by the time I talked to Judi I was agitated with myself. I had come a long way in the process of getting over him. All these readings set me back.
What she picked up didn't really resonate with me. It sounded great, but, it didn't feel quite right. Beyond that, everything she said are things I can't verify. Also, she brought up things no one else has mentioned. And you know what that means--either she is way off or way gifted. But I have either way of knowing.
As a side note: Does that drive anyone else crazy? A psychic shares all these details about what's going on with someone, you're dying of curiosity to know if it really is how things are, and you realize you may never get the chance to know?
I noticed, she would say something, ask me for clarification, and when I further explained, would adjust which she had previously said to align with the details I just gave her. More specifically, she said he was dissatisfied with his job, wanted more recognition, and was thinking of leaving by the end of the year. The thing is, he isn't working at a job. He's taken time away from his career to be a full-time caregiver to his mother. And while that could be considered a "job" and maybe he's not satisfied every day, it didn't fit with what she said. And when she asked about his career, while I couldn't give specific details because we haven't been in touch since January, I told her what I knew and she shifted her reading to fit what I told her.
I'm tempted to leave less than positive feedback, but I also don't want to be one of those callers who takes out their frustration on the reader.
Frustration or not though, I don't understand the hype. Comparing previous experience with other readers, she was average at best.
But I will say, I'm grateful to her. This was the last straw for me. I won't be getting any more readings for awhile.
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Leave the poor feedback, especially if you know you are not going to call her again. These readers kinda coast on you not calling them out and clients need to consider real reviews. That changing things to fit what you tell them is a red flag..I dont care how good of a reader they are. Its just proof that they will just spout nonsense without thinking.
bstalling:
--- Quote from: tired of it all on June 06, 2016, 09:31:32 PM ---
--- Quote from: allibai3 on June 06, 2016, 09:03:14 PM ---Wait I'm confused. If she was or is able to describe the way a person is feeling or thinking wouldn't her predictions match that?For example, lets say she said your ex misses you and suggest you should contact him wouldn't he respond then and be happy to hear from you?
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It seems like it should work that way, but people don't always act on what they are thinking or feeling, least of all my ex. What Judi told me about his feelings made perfect sense because it corroborated with things he had told me himself in the past. Lots of readers have been able to tell me about his feelings and it matched things he actually told me. But hardly anyone has been able to predict what he would actually DO. Therein lies the rub.
At least Judi didn't drag me along for months extending timelines. But months after the contact prediction fell through, Judi denied that she had ever been wrong about anything regarding my ex. That's when she blocked me.
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She sounds pretty crazy. I would have started running when she saw that an innanimate object had feelings and thought processes. Thats so whacko and mind-blowing..and I would question why people are calling her.
In general, I've found empaths the worst psychics to call. Feelings are only one part of the picture..we live with feelings, thoughts and events..and time for these 3 factors to mix around. In addition readers that call themselves empaths could more likely just be guessing their way through a reading. Most people want to know about what will actually happen. You need a psychic has more than just this skill.
Leogirl0808:
You think if you're a great empath that predicting someone's next step would be effortlessly done!
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