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divine wishes:
--- Quote from: FlutterShy on October 14, 2014, 05:52:25 AM ---
3. psychic binge calling is much like a gambling addiction trance. asking why it didn't work out? who he is because of his mommy and daddy or ex lovers? are not empowering questions... but keep you fixated in that trance. if you must keep asking questions, ask questions that will truly empower you.
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This is so very true! When in the midst of a binge it does become something of a trance...
Bella:
Hi all... I don't know how to make a new topic or anything...But I just want to give a bit of my experience to you all....Most is not so pretty...lol
K...The three year guy who all said, he loved me and would be back...Ness21 Lady P, and I could go on...Well it's been 2 years and 5 months and I have never heard a peep from him...I'm sure you can read my tally somewhere regarding that situation.
Then I got out there again this past September....I wil give lady P quodos...she said it won't go anywhere...And it didn't. However Q OF C said it totally would. Stated how much he liked me...Well turns out he didn't.... Oh and Hilary 80 totally nailed what happened, however, NOTHING she said would happen did....Prediction wise, a big zero. Those are the only 3 I called regarding that situation...And I might say proudly ONLY once each....
Now to today....started seeing a guy end of november...and he bowled me over...so into me...and literally 2 days after I saw him last he started giving me the cold shoulder.....I will say In the beginning...I chatted with Heather Woodward... I don't know why...well I guess cause I am an addict and was feeling uncertain....As she has been wrong in the past...However she totally pegged two things on him...He confirmed such. So as far as insight on that chat...she was correct. Then regarding what transpired two days ago, I chatted again...and she was totally wrong...Well, 3/4 wrong....the other 1/4 I cannot confirm. Too much for me. Lady P also said he was into me and this would be a lasting thing....NOPE.
I also, on my fall off the wagon, called Trish. Angelic visions...Super nice person....However yesterday was one story and today a tad different. Not in predictions, but to who he is...yesterday he was a great guy albeit confused, today, he still loves me, but should really think twice before I take him back...Not such anice guy today... and not because I don't think she has a gift, but the more I spoke the more the story changed.....I guess I just needed to vent....As he turned out after 2 1/2 months to be a total shit. Confirmation of his being a shit came from his own mouth....lol...So...I realized that if someone says something to you It's real...what the psychics tell you IS NOT....
I don't know what to say anymore....I have in the past called to feel better...I know for the past 2 days I have been doing the same thing, to feel better...... And I hate myself as I was doing pretty good WITHOUT calling....I know predictions don't come through. And I honestly don't call for them... I call for the NOW.....And with my experience...No one, except for the random as in the one time with Heather...has been even able to do that. But I keep learing by my mistakes...
I hope I keep learning. I am just glad this fall off the wagon wasn't that expensive.
Be Well Everyone!!!
divine wishes:
big hugs, bella!
Nottakingthebait:
Bella,
Thank goodness it wasn't a crazy expensive bender! I agree that sometimes they are right but most of the time they are wrong.
For ME, and this is only my experience....Yona has been the most accurate reader, her timing of events have all been correct, she has missed a few details but overall her readings for me are accurate. Yonas readings will not, and should not make sense until after things fall into place. There have been times she would tell me something and I assumed that it was regarding person A and it ended up being person B....but the predictions happen. She is not the reader to call and ask a specific question, or any question lol....she is best at General readings only, she usually sees what you want to know anyway.
Bella:
Hi....
Thanks....Yes, while this at one time could have been a very costly bender, I am grateful this time it wasn't...lol.
I received conflicting readings regarding this situation. Like I said after our 1st date, I chatted with Heather...And I was shocked when something she said, he leter confirmed. However, her prediction so to speak, well, was only part right. Then I did try her after, since I was shocked from the one a few months before... on Tuesday, and she said this guy cared about me and had feelings and didn't want to loose me. But that he wanted to see other people. As the reading went on, it got worse....wanting his cake and eating it too...Something about an ex around him that he wasn't really into, but wasn't finished with. I was like HUH? But she kept saying how he didn't want to loose me. The very next day he broke it off. It was totally out of the blue. As two nights before, he didn't want me to leave, kept trying to make me stay over....(?) Maybe he's a professional player? lol...
I will never know if it's because of someone else. I asked him, and he said no. Granted, I'm not saying I believe him.
I don't want to reveal too much information....But he's got health issues. He just received a diagnosis, while not life threating, it very well could be without proper care and life changes... (he's got a ton of other stuff too)..When I read with Trish, she immediately picked up on something that he was upset about. Said a ton of stuff that applied to my situation. And that that was the reason for breaking it off.
Spoke with Empathic Ellen....Was so on point, it was wow.....Said he didn't feel like he had anything to "offer me" was kicking himself...However....How do I really know what the reason is? I need to go by what he said. And that alone. I read with her again this time as she was maybe one or two of the readers who didn't see a positive outcome with the last guy...And she was right.
People break up every day. Sometimes, no matter how great one person sees it, the other one doesn't. I will say, I think he just wasn't feeling it anymore. No matter how thick he laid things on...till the bitter end though, hence my confusion. That's just him. I will take the timing into consideration....right before Valentine's Day....why spend that day with someone you don't see it going anywhere with? Why put that on it, when the other person can misconstrue the meaning?
I decided to just go with that. He just wasn't into anymore, and realized I was into it, so why continue? Yeah he cared, but not "like that"....They pick up on that he did, and apply that to now.
Trouble is, he was up my ass all the time....calling texting, cooking me dinner....blah blah blah....but that's just his way. I took it for more. And in my defense of being blindsided....I fell for it. LOL...Yeah, i told him to back it up on more than one occasion...Told him of my trust issues...He assured me he would only be truthful...always told me of conversations he had with his mom, son about me..All his kids knew about me.....But whatever....I need to take what he said, that he wasn't feeling anything more than friendship....and move on from it. Doesn't matter that he laid it on thick till the day before....
I can't let myself be sucked into the calling game, waiting for a call that will never ever come. Nope, I decided to cry it out, put my big girl panties on, and try to get over it!!!!
Thanks for letting me vent!!!!
Be Well Everyone!!!
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