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Nottakingthebait:

Som! This is awesome! Yay!




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--- Quote from: Synergy on May 31, 2014, 08:42:27 PM ---Somnus, any updates? Have you heard from your boyfriend?

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Yes. I'm just way too impatient, apparently.  We not only spoke, but actually saw each other last night.  And it was a positive meeting, so there's that.  I don't want to get into too many specifics anymore with this situation for a variety of reasons, but right now I still have to give credit to Kisha and, funnily enough, YourPathInLt on this whole situation.  Which is weird, because Kisha is SUPER negative about it and YourPathInLt is SUPER positive in comparison, but somehow both of their predictions are coming up correct.  I really don't know how to explain it.  It's complicated.

But we are talking. So now we'll see what happens.  Thanks, everyone - leaving him alone was absolutely the right thing to do.

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Synergy:
That's a very important step in the right direction, Somnus! Little by little, you'll get there.

optx888:
Everyone grieves differently.  I don't know the history you have with this person...but if he is asking for you to give him time, then you should respect that and give him time.  Not a weekend or 3 days...give him both time and space.  No harm in reaching out after a couple of weeks to say "Hi...just wanted to see how you are doing.  If you ever need to talk, I'm here to listen" etc. 

Distance and silence sometimes gives you the answer you are looking for.

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