Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions > Keen.com
Lady Jenna & Yona Farrell
Truth:
when i've casually brought up how accuracy starts to wane with favorite advisors, I've been told a couple of things:
1 - "i've called them too much"
2 - "i'm not trusting their guidance"
marybell:
I have been told by 2 different psychics that its because I had become too dependent on them and the confusing or wrong readings meant that I needed to start making decisions on my own. Similar to what Truth said, that, if I was not going to trust their (initial) guidance , I would be forced to use my own guidance, or go back to the original guidance they gave me. One is a friend of mine, and never charges me for a reading , and the other is a psychic on Keen, who said she did not feel she could read for me any longer , but would do life coaching with me.
Zee:
Not to discredit any of your readers, but what exactly is lifecoaching anyway? Another money making scheme?
--- Quote ---when i've casually brought up how accuracy starts to wane with favorite advisors, I've been told a couple of things:
1 - "i've called them too much"
2 - "i'm not trusting their guidance"
--- End quote ---
#1 I agree with only slightly, but feel once the reader knows you, they give advice instead of just doing their job.
#2 sounds like they are standing on their egotistical soapbox. Their guidance isn't set in stone and should always be suggestive as far as I'm concerned. I've never heard a reader say, if you do what I say exactly then this is what will happen. Please give me a break on that one.
marybell:
Zee: "Not to discredit any of your readers, but what exactly is lifecoaching anyway? Another money making scheme?"
@ Zee
From my understanding life coaches provide support and direction focused on specific aspects of your life. For example, a few years back I attempted to start my own business and hired a life coach to take me step by step through the procedures , plus help me deal with my fears of taking a risk. She was smart , but her methods were too ungrounded for me, constantly getting me to do breathing exercises, so I hired someone else who turned out to be very nuts and bolts, down to earth. He was perfect for me. That was then and now I have an adviser working with me to deal with some relationship issues. Again, I am finding this perfect for me. Not any of these felt like money making schemers to me. They all helped me enormously. But that is my experience, I cannot speak for others.
I find the step by step approach to dealing with relationships , at this time, to be more useful then psychic readings. In my opinion the adviser and my friend were both right about my becoming too dependent on them. And, I do trust them when they say that it was that dependency that created the "breeding ground' for contradictory readings. Even if I felt the adviser was BSing me, I know that my friend had no reason to. She never received a cent from me, plus, she expressed true concern for my mental health. However, I do admit, I still on occasion call psychics, and still come here daily to see if there is someone amazing for me to try. Haven't had much success though. But that's my journey.
Zee:
Okay so there are different kinds of life coaches. They don't usually specify. I wasn't aware of that aspect.
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