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99.8% W R O N G
hope4love:
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Bark angel:
I'm glad to read the last post because I do believe, like it or not, as humans we tend to bring data in and analyze it with filters that we choose to use in particular situations. I am not endorsing psychic readings, mind you, but what I am saying is that we have no idea why people that used to post here about exes and stop doing so, have decided not to come back. It could be any of the below. Because they are:
* fed up
* done
* indifferent
* happy
* reconciled
* moved on
* otherAll we can do is speculate. There are instances of couples reuniting. Whether those stick or ultimately fail we don't know. But clearly from the prior message and probably many other members that don't post here or are too busy with their lives to do so, there are likely many other cases of it.
divine wishes:
I'd say it is fairly evident there are a difference of opinions here, and those opinions serve the individuals' best interest. Believe in what you need to, but don't feel the need to convince others to adopt your opinion, even if the "numbers" are on your side.
bstalling:
I know I said I would not post again, but just want to say sorry to Kickingthehabit. Although I still value a select few readers, I give up on them. I think most of us call because we want to be told that everything will be alright, even though reality shows otherwise. I think that is the reason why 90 percent of us don't get what we want in the end...because most of our relationships are dysfunctional in one way or another.
Its pretty clear that a lot of us lack confidence in our lives. The only thing that can help this is counseling and making an effort to apply healthy coping skills when life lets us down. Its the only way. Counting on psychic predictions is living in a dream world. If we keep on attracting jerks, we need to find out what it is about ourselves that is letting it happen...and make an effort to change it.
I too tried Hillary twice and she offered some fantastic details that she couldn't have known. However, she described two different guys that were to show up in my life for a serious relationship. Ends up, the first guy was a friend of a friend that liked me, but I wasn't in anyway attracted to. The other guy she was describing ended up being my personal banker that called me out of the blue for financial dealings...although he did make some real estate suggestions like she said he would. I'm in no way attracted to him. You see? Right, but dead wrong in the end. That is what it comes down to with these readers.
Bella:
I honestly don't know where to begin....but Kicking is right.
They're all 99.8% WRONG. I have called and wasted way too much money on false hope. I, at this point have given up. Honest. However, it does become tempting to get that feel good feeling that the guy that dumped me so cruelly, does love me. He misses me. He is so distraught. He never meant it to get to this point. He doesn't know what to do. Really?
Doesn't anyone here think that if he actually felt any of those things he would call me and tell me that? Ok, so maybe they're shy and not accustomed to putting it all out there...so how about a simple "how you doing" text....ummm no. haven't gotten that either. How about Happy Birthday? No? not even that? well, uhhum, time to think about things then, don't you think? He can't even text a Happy Birthday?!?!?! Honestly now. For how many birthdays? Yeah, he's depressed. He's struggling.
I know in my heart that if that were me? Well then I would reach out and tell that person whom I LOVED so much. Again, I guess that's just me, a regular person. But I guess I'm not just a regular person, as I have called psychics and paid them to tell me how much he loved me. Something most regular people do not do. But I never received that call, that so many told me would come. No, that call that they all said was coming, never ever came. And it never will. I know that now. No matter how many phone calls that made me feel better, that he loved me....no, that call will never ever come.
I know I speak only for myself, but also for so many others, that no, that call never came.
If you want to play those timing, gambling games, then go ahead, waste your time doing that. How many bets of phone calls actually paid off? Or rather how many just made you feel able to make it though the night. I don't say that lightly, as I have been there. I am not passing judgment. Some calls have helped me sleep so peacefully. For a night or two.
I cannot validate what some have told me. And yes some have been so spot on, as they say, with past and possibly present. As I add more money to the call.
It's been 15 months for me. Maybe more, or possibly less for you. but has that call come?
I am done with him, and most of all them.... The psychics. They keep you holding on to something that isn't there. It's all just a fantasy. They keep you in what they tell you is real, but it's not. It's just a fantasy. But I finally realized I want REAL. I want real in my life. Not something that isn't there. I want something tangible. Something I can touch.
Heal and move on.
Heal.
I am saying this for me more than anyone else. I am also saying this for anyone who happens across this forum.
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