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Bark angel:
each time you toss a coin there is an equal (=) chance it will land heads up as it would land tails up. That's my point. And that is irrefutable.
--- Quote from: Synergy on February 28, 2014, 05:43:21 PM ---This is absolutely not true. That is not how probability works.
A coin has two sides. When you toss it in the air, it can come up heads or tails. Initially one would say there is a 1 to 2 chance that heads or tails will appear. However, if you toss the coin 50 times that does not mean that heads will come up 25 times and tails would come up 25 times. There are other factors involved. Probability is a guide... not a standard and not an absolute. There is a 50% chance he will come back. There is a 50% chance he will not. When you factor in TIME PASSED, new relationships, etc, it becomes like tossing the coin in there air more than once. The percentage is NOT 50%.
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Bark angel:
Syn,
Respectfully, and again, I disagree. This is not true at all. Each time a coin is tossed there is an equal chance of it landing head up or tails up, NO MATTER how often it is tossed, the chance is still EQUAL that it lands heads up or tails up, BECAUSE for each coin toss there are only 2 likely outcomes - heads up or tails up. So the chances are 50/50 in each and every coin toss.
You are confounding this. The point I am making is that when given a "yes" or "no" situation your chances of it coming up the way you wish is equal, and that is because there are 2 and only 2 likely outcomes. Yes, or No.
--- Quote from: Synergy on February 28, 2014, 05:43:21 PM ---When you factor in TIME PASSED, new relationships, etc, it becomes like tossing the coin in there air more than once. The percentage is NOT 50%.
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Nottakingthebait:
It really does not matter what information we receive, the fact are telling us the outcome. If the other person is involved with someone else, living with someone else, and not communicating with us the facts are representing the truth...the outcome is it O V E R! There is no mathematical equation for O V E R.
Joel Osteen says: "Why put a question mark where there is a period"
If someone has not communicated with you for at least six months, has blocked you from social networks, and does not show any action toward you...it is fact they are not coming back. Accepting this is like a nightmare that one can not wake up from. The only hope that lingers is false hope, I would rather have no hope than false hope. As time progresses the truth become clear and the false hope hurts deeper than accepting the reality as it is presented.
So, I pose the question: Why put a question mark where there is a period? The question mark is what triggered my emotional break, depression, sadness, defeat, foolishness and and and!
--- Quote from: Bark angel on February 28, 2014, 06:36:10 PM ---Syn,
Respectfully, and again, I disagree. This is not true at all. Each time a coin is tossed there is an equal chance of it landing head up or tails up, NO MATTER how often it is tossed, the chance is still EQUAL that it lands heads up or tails up, BECAUSE for each coin toss there are only 2 likely outcomes - heads up or tails up. So the chances are 50/50 in each and every coin toss.
You are confounding this. The point I am making is that when given a "yes" or "no" situation your chances of it coming up the way you wish is equal, and that is because there are 2 and only 2 likely outcomes. Yes, or No.
--- Quote from: Synergy on February 28, 2014, 05:43:21 PM ---When you factor in TIME PASSED, new relationships, etc, it becomes like tossing the coin in there air more than once. The percentage is NOT 50%.
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Synergy:
When you gamble, there are odds. If life worked the way you think it does, all odds would be 50/50. Because life isn't black and white, when two teams play, the odds are not always 50%. The odds are influenced by player health, season performance, etc. Likewise when determining odds for a situation to occur, one has to look at all the factors. If I tell my ex never to speak to me again, I am decreasing the odds that he will return. If move to another country, I am decreasing the odds. If YEARS pass since the last contact, the odds decrease as well.
Anyways, KTH is right. Who cares. Reality proves he isn't here. There's a 100% reality that you're not together. 100%.
Plus, when you live your life waiting, you're not living. Go find someone new who will actually talk to you. Not someone who has been silent for years. Odds he will return are decreasing as we speak.
Not to be insensitive, but there was Friday night that chat was FULL. And I sat back and thought, wow. These are intelligent, awesome women. Women who should be living. Women who should be doing something on a Friday night instead of sitting on a psychic forum chat. Now, don't get me wrong. I was there too. But, WTF?! Am I going to meet the love of my life by sitting at home waiting on an ex who isn't coming back, drinking wine, and reviewing readers on a forum? Hell no. Neither will anyone else. Go live life. Sure, maybe your ex will return. Maybe he won't. But at least you're living in the meantime. Or take the money you'd spend on a reading and go pamper yourself instead! You deserve it!!
Bark angel:
What I think you are trying to say is that in psychic readings about relationships being restored there are more than 2 likely outcomes. Actually there aren't. it will either be or not be, Just as in a strict yes/no situation, or head/tails situation, there are ONLY 2 outcomes.
--- Quote from: Synergy on February 28, 2014, 07:10:45 PM ---Likewise when determining odds for a situation to occur, one has to look at all the factors. If I tell my ex never to speak to me again, I am decreasing the odds that he will return. If move to another country, I am decreasing the odds.
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Exactly - which is why I have always asserted that WE can influence a positive or negative outcome to alter what was predicted. It's not simply a case of a psychic saying something will occur and we can run roughshod over parties involved and expect the same outcome! We play an integral part too. And it is not just a black/white case as telling someone off, or hanging up on them, or being brusque in the supermarket line. It could be hardening of your heart, or a cooling off of a passion - all play a role in the end result.
--- Quote from: Synergy on February 28, 2014, 07:10:45 PM --- If YEARS pass since the last contact, the odds decrease as well.
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Technically, that doesn't affect the outcome, but years do permit a hardening of the heart, a cooling off of passion; grievances and bitterness, or simply indifference to creep in that DO affect the way we play our role!
--- Quote from: Synergy on February 28, 2014, 07:10:45 PM ---Anyways, KTH is right. Who cares. Reality proves he isn't here. There's a 100% reality that you're not together. 100%.
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It is all a matter of perception. Reality is, before you met Mr. Wonderful, how was life for you? You were not with him. He was 100% not there. The reality was that a Mr. Wonderful did NOT exist - at that moment.
Perception is all that matters here. If before Mr. Wonderful arrived you continued to say to yourself, "my reality is that a Mr. Wonderful will never be in my life, because look he is not here today" you would have been wrong. Because in a matter of time, along came Mr. Wonderful. I just ask that you consider that....
--- Quote from: Synergy on February 28, 2014, 07:10:45 PM ---Plus, when you live your life waiting, you're not living.
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Most of the good psychics I have spoken to insist that this is a necessary and integral part of predictions manifesting, by the way. None of them prescribe waiting at all. That's why I have always maintained that we do not do with the information what we are supposed to do with it, and as a result, perhaps we too are responsible for whether a prediction manifests or not.
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