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Please don't call psychics anymore!
Bark angel:
Exactly, Zee!
Bark angel:
Syn,
I am not trying to exploit your situation. We all know how hard it is to move on. I am pretty sure that if the vast majority of us were to be completely honest with ourselves, most of us haven't. I know I haven't.
All I am saying is that if you had accepted it as final, curiosity would not matter. Nothing would!
Bark angel:
Ok...my point to this conversation is getting lost so I will leave with this comment. I think we do have a role in whether a psychic prediction happens or not. The more we want it, the more we play a role. The more active we are in the prediction and the events leading up to the outcome, the longer it will take if it ever manifests at all.
Even when we think we are not playing a role, we are... our minds play tricks on us, as we try to convince ourselves that we are not dwelling on the issue. If we could put it aside, and I mean really put it aside, the final outcome would carry as much weight as some of the incidental predictions that manifest during our calls to readers that we totally dismiss as insignificant and unnecessary. Ever consider why they might come to fruition? Perhaps, just perhaps because they ARE insignificant.
This could go on until the prediction no longer means as much to us anymore. When the final outcome means less to us, such that it too becomes insignificant, that, folks, is probably when the prediction happens!
Zee:
How does one surrender? Distractions are temporary. How does one let go? Our minds are the strongest forces of our beings.
I've asked this from my share of psychics and almost none have been able to give any concrete answer and when people say "just live your life" is not an answer because even when you're strung out, you're still living. It might not be the life you envision, but it's still living. Well, by all means, please explain how it's done.
...and meditation is a crock, so don't say this either.
If I have to meditate to stop thinking about something I want so that it happens, I'm still thinking about it. I feel I am getting closer to an answer, just by how I've come to have the position I have now, but I still don't have the complete answer.
melancholia:
--- Quote from: Zee on January 09, 2014, 08:56:20 PM ---How does one surrender? Distractions are temporary. How does one let go? Our minds are the strongest forces of our beings.
I've asked this from my share of psychics and almost none have been able to give any concrete answer and when people say "just live your life" is not an answer because even when you're strung out, you're still living. It might not be the life you envision, but it's still living. Well, by all means, please explain how it's done.
...and meditation is a crock, so don't say this either.
If I have to meditate to stop thinking about something I want so that it happens, I'm still thinking about it. I feel I am getting closer to an answer, just by how I've come to have the position I have now, but I still don't have the complete answer.
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What you have to do...or at least, what I've had to do in the past...is basically whatever you'd do to get over a nasty breakup. And at first it is just distraction, but eventually (with what is essentially practice) it helps you keep your mind off the situation and you learn to move on.
The last time I went through this (and probably what I should do again now), I hit the gym just about every day, I rearranged my room and painted it a new color, I made a point of joining a few social groups on meetup.com, and I made a point of finding a creative outlet. For me, that's writing - I'd go to a park or a Starbucks or anywhere that would not remind me of my relationship and I'd write.
For you, it might be different. But it's all down to practice.
That said, it doesn't stop you from thinking about it entirely - it can't, because Lord knows it hurts. I think the key is to keep yourself from thinking about it constantly, and that's where the distractions come in. And after you do it enough, it just kind of...happens. (But admittedly, sometimes that takes seemingly FOREVER.)
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