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Please don't call psychics anymore!
Bark angel:
Syn,
People change their feelings all the time. He can change his feelings.. and in point of fact those appear to me to be simply excuses - not reasons. My point was that if you are getting readings about this matter after he has told you point blank that is not going to happen, have you actually accepted it?
--- Quote from: Synergy on January 09, 2014, 07:54:18 PM ---Yes, I have received positive predictions about this relationship AFTER he has told me that he is not interested in anything other than friendship. With that said, a reading should not take precedence over reality. His feelings about the fact I have children will not change. This was an issue 2 years ago, is an issue now, and will always be an issue. The right man for me will not care that I already have two children.
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melancholia:
--- Quote from: Bark angel on January 09, 2014, 07:59:55 PM ---Syn,
People change their feelings all the time. He can change his feelings.. and in point of fact those appear to me to be simply excuses - not reasons. My point was that if you are getting readings about this matter after he has told you point blank that is not going to happen, have you actually accepted it?
--- Quote from: Synergy on January 09, 2014, 07:54:18 PM ---Yes, I have received positive predictions about this relationship AFTER he has told me that he is not interested in anything other than friendship. With that said, a reading should not take precedence over reality. His feelings about the fact I have children will not change. This was an issue 2 years ago, is an issue now, and will always be an issue. The right man for me will not care that I already have two children.
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I'm going to be blunt. I think it's really inappropriate for you to be questioning people's acceptance of what is being told to them point blank. If Synergy has accepted that this individual is not interested in a relationship, I don't see how it's appropriate to encourage her to consider that, oh, his feelings might change, these could just be excuses.
Are you sure you're not projecting your own hopes because you want to believe your readings were real? Believe me, I think we'd all understand if you were because we've all been there at one point or another - reading stories of other people's predictions just barely falling short, hoping that the outcome would change for the better so that we could have some validation that, yes, these readings can pan out...but let's be real here. They haven't, and like you, a lot of us have been getting readings for years.
We can go back and forth all day about dwelling, but encouraging people to hold on to hope when they've already made the conscious decision to move on is really kind of inconsiderate.
Bark angel:
Somnus,
All I am saying is that it is hard to accept and let something go. I understand it is difficult. I am the first to admit I have not. But I also believe one has to speak one's truth. I find it curious that someone is still calling about a love interest after being told there is no hope, if that person believes that the information give by the love interest is the truth. That's all.
You can take from the rest of the post what you want, but when you boil it all down, if someone has accepted that nothing will come of a relationship why would there be any reason to call a psychic about them?
Zee:
--- Quote from: Somnus on January 09, 2014, 08:08:41 PM ---I'm going to be blunt. I think it's really inappropriate for you to be questioning people's acceptance of what is being told to them point blank. If Synergy has accepted that this individual is not interested in a relationship, I don't see how it's appropriate to encourage her to consider that, oh, his feelings might change, these could just be excuses.
Are you sure you're not projecting your own hopes because you want to believe your readings were real? Believe me, I think we'd all understand if you were because we've all been there at one point or another - reading stories of other people's predictions just barely falling short, hoping that the outcome would change for the better so that we could have some validation that, yes, these readings can pan out...but let's be real here. They haven't, and like you, a lot of us have been getting readings for years.
We can go back and forth all day about dwelling, but encouraging people to hold on to hope when they've already made the conscious decision to move on is really kind of inconsiderate.
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Personally, I think you're misreading Bark Angel's intent. I got the impression she was trying to figure out how outcomes happen, the reason they don't....how it's possible for the caller to be responsible for the outcome as well....just information about readings in general (or I could be wrong). I thought she was on to something, not necessarily trying to ram her beliefs down anyone else's throats. She (as it appears to me) was just using Synergy as a variable or example to give proof to her theory. There are two sides to everything.
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Oh, I meant to add. I don't think she believes anyone has made the conscious decision to move on, then they still wouldn't be calling readers about the issue. Besides, it's a process. One doesn't just turn off their feelings like a light switch. There is still hope somewhere no matter how miniscule that it will work out. Part of that process too is talking it out, and here we are.
Synergy:
--- Quote from: Bark angel on January 09, 2014, 08:22:01 PM ---Somnus,
All I am saying is that it is hard to accept and let something go. I understand it is difficult. I am the first to admit I have not. But I also believe one has to speak one's truth. I find it curious that someone is still calling about a love interest after being told there is no hope, if that person believes that the information give by the love interest is the truth. That's all.
You can take from the rest of the post what you want, but when you boil it all down, if someone has accepted that nothing will come of a relationship why would there be any reason to call a psychic about them?
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Nope. That's not what happened. I did not call to talk about the person in question returning. In one instance, I called about an entirely different situation and the person in question came up in the reading and the reader told me he would return romatically. In the other two instances, I got readings because this person reached out to me for help with something after giving me his speech. I was curious what his intent was... I was NOT trying to see if we would reconcile. Via this line of questions, both readers indicated he would eventually return romantically, HOWEVER, both mentioned that one primary driver would be sex.
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