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Zee:
I have to agree and I ache for you because you don't know where you stand, nor where the two of you are going. If he is the only one that can help you get to any type of conclusions, then he is the ONLY one you should ask (no matter how much it may hurt). Psychics are good for some things...the little stuff - not matters of the heart.

chrys:
You are all right.  I guess since all of my reading no matter who they were with were so positive.  They keep telling me that he will open up to me around the 16th of January.  They have been right about everything else.  They told me that even though it would be more difficult for him to see me he would find a way.  They have been dead on with every point of contact so I was really hoping that everything would work out of the best and it may.  It just seems like after so many positive readings to have one negative one kind of puts me into a panic and I really worry about losing him.  I never thought about loving him but the more they told me he loved me the more I allowed my feelings to enter into what we have.  I know that he is just as lonely and sad in  his marriage as I am.  It just seemed that we fill a gap for each other.  I am not expecting him to profess his undying love or to leave his marriage because of me.  Just like I am not going to leave mine because of him.   When I leave and the reason will not be another man.  It will be because I have been in a sad and lonely marriage for 8 years.  I would expect no less from him.  I call psychics because I am worried about losing him because for the last year I have not been lonely and I have someone who makes me feel desirable and like I am important to someone.  I have spoken to some really accurate people as far as contact and feeling go.  I just think that I maybe cluttered up my chat read with my own insecurities and by reading to many times in one day.

allbitenobark:
When your stressed out and panicky it can cause you to get in your own way while getting a reading, lol, I hope that makes sense. Take a break from it and in the meantime you should share some reviews for the psychics that have made correct (or incorrect) predictions for you. That'll keep ya busy!! Haha! :)

A lot of psychics are already on here, so do a search and add to their thread but if they're new (to the forum) just start a new topic. I'm looking forward to reading who has been working for you!

Hang in there, hon, and we'll always lend you an ear when you need it.

sagitira:
 I never thought about loving him but the more they told me he loved me the more I allowed my feelings to enter into what we have.
i have to react to this. i read this sentence and having experience with psychics (over 2 years) and seeing how it all started with me - do you not see what is happening? exact same happened to me. i was guarded until i started with psychic readings. psychics were telling me how much he loved me, how he would find a way to see me etc...i will tell you one thing - NONE of their predictions happened for me. i would get 10 positive readings then one negative reading after which i had to get another 10 positive readings to make me feel better.
please stop getting readings and i have to agree with decibel diva - ask him. why should you spend money to ask strangers a question who don't know you or him? instead ask him directly and you will see what he says. you should be prepared for both - yes and no scenarios.
2 years ago i did same mistake, instead of asking him directly i asked psychics. guess what, after one year of predictions not happening i asked him directly...and answer was i would but i can't leave my girl....imagine how i felt, so much wasted money, time, if i asked straight i would be on my way to healing. yet even after he told me i sought out psychics asking about what he told me - i still did not believe him because psychics were saying something else.

i don't want to upset you i know how you feel but you will be more upset and depressed if you keep hanging and waiting for him for another 1-2 years discovering that predictions are not happening and in fact quite opposite seems to be going on. if he says no to the two of you then you know, you can mourn, have some alone time and start moving on and healing. i'd hate to see others going through same pain i did just because i was afraid to ask my guy where we were heading and i was scared to hear NO from him. this caused me 2 years of major depression...trust me it's not worth it. i wish you best of luck, hope you can update how your situation turned out but remember whatever happens it will be the best for you in the long run - you might not see it now or in a few months time but you will understand later why things happen as they happen - good luck :)

sweet2:

Good luck to all

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