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sagitira:
yes i'm sure i was influenced by what readers saw. honestly cause i wanted to leave him long time ago. i stayed because of false hopes. you know the thing is i never wanted relationship with work colleague and he wasn't my colleague at the beginning. only later :( sadly...

wish someone had a recipe how to get over someone who you have to see daily, guess time is the best healer here..

BellaLife:
@sagitira.... My last relationship was with a co-worker, who was with his live in gf, and when he started working where I am at now he used to complain how unhappy he was.  Well we started talking, then flirting and somewhat eventually dating, she found out and they broke up and he moved out. Although we were dating, something was not right in my gut, I knew he was still into her and seeing her. Well I finally could not stand it anymore, and dodged all his calls. When at work I played the friendly phony part, like hey good morning, how are you (inside my heart was hurting) but all be damned I refused to let him see it.

So many psychics said no way are they getting back together, but a few outright told me they would get back together and get married. They did get engaged, we did not get back together, he is still a rat. I think they still have the problems they did before. But who cares!

CP/Leslie: Said forget him they are talking marriage....I was like no way...he said he is soooo over her...he is a liar.
he cheated on her 2 other times during their many years of living together.

CP/Reba: Same prediction as Leslie!

Too many psychics to list said that he is over her and will be with me. Thank goodness they were wrong!

sagitira:
@BellaLife
thank you for your post it really helped me. i admire  you for being able to be nice to him at work even though insight you must have hurt. oh gosh i'm sorry you had to go through this. maybe i need to get that strength to do same and try to control myself and not let him see i am hurt. worst part is i have noone i can talk to about this so at home i think too much...

wow..sadly for some reason i am not able to create account on cp (i'm not in usa) not sure if it would work. those are the readers i wanted to try who are not afraid to give negative prediction. i only came across a couple who did this for me.

just wondering how much longer till i am over this jerk...

thank you for your comments.

BellaLife:
@sagitira....you're welcome! I know it hurts, and I wish you the best, I feel for you..... :)  I had a couple of family members who I complained to, (useless) because I guess I complained to much because they basically got tired of me complaining, (they offered no comfort or advice)  and I got tired of calling psychics and wasting my hard earned money calling about his sorry ass...lol.....while he was probably spending his on her. Guess my self esteem kicked in.....looking back I wish I did not spend all that money calling about him.

Maybe if I can offer some advise, try and go whats in your gut, your feeling. Because if something is not feeling right in a good way in your, then it probably is not.

sagitira:
will do bella, thank you for feedback and advise. I'm trying my best now :)

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