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I finally bit the bullet and did it.

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melancholia:
I dumped my boyfriend on Friday. I'd known he was texting his ex and lying to my face about it for months, but Friday I finally took action and went to the store where she worked, somewhere so out of the way for him he had no business being there. Sure enough, there he was, and so I ended it.  Almost all the psychics I had spoken to said that there either wasn't another woman or that she wasn't a threat, but apparently she was enough of a threat for him to lie and emotionally cheat on me at the very least.

So the past several days I've been on a bit of a binge, and credit where credit is due - most of the psychics I spoke to told me I did the right thing and either strongly implied or outright told me that I should never, ever go back to him.  They also all gave me the same timeline for him to try to come back though.

Extra special credit to Kisha, who straight up told me to stop getting readings and follow my heart instead of listening to the readings, and Cassie (JourneyBySpirit) who held back the information that he might return and told me to run in the other direction, and only mentioned that he might try to come back after I called a second time and asked her about getting back some money he owes me.

Caroline Lynn was in line with the others about timing of him trying to come back after he realizes that things with the ex aren't going to work this time around either, and said if I were her daughter she'd tell me to dump him and not look back. Persephone said this is a pattern for them (and from what I've heard from him, it may well be) and they won't last but I can do better.

So I wrote down everything they said, and asked Keen to close my account and refund the balance. I already did this with CP after Eden suggested that the reason things seemed off with the boyfriend was because he might be gay and insisted there was no other woman.

So lesson learned, I suppose.  I'll let you all know if he tries to come back in Jan/Feb like they said, but beyond that I'm completely done.

Synergy:
Somnus, I'm sorry you had to go through this, but I'm proud of you for both cutting him loose and closing your Keen account. You deserve better than a man who would lie to you in this way.

Synergy:
Somnus, you had previously mentioned a reading you had with The Sane Psychic. Did her predictions/take on the situation line up with what happened? I've never read with her, but I'm just curious since you posted about her recently.

melancholia:
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bstalling:
Sorry for your dissapointment, Sommus.

I just googled The Sane Psychic and realized I read with her before. She was clearly lying during my reading and waiting for me to add things before making predictions or "providing insight". I left her one star...too pissed to write a long review on her. She is not real at all, IMO.

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