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melancholia:

--- Quote from: FlutterShy on December 08, 2013, 04:15:06 AM ---Thanks. I do like this approach. Wish me good luck tomorrow.

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Hoping everything went well!  But if it didn't, here are some puppies to help warm you up a bit: http://www.buzzfeed.com/jessicamisener/the-most-adorable-puppies-of-2013?bffb

Ginger:
This guy sounds like a douche. Please don't waste your time with this. And don't remain in this downward spiral either. Pick yourself up and see that he isn't worth your time.
Can I offer you a website that I feel really helps? Powerfulintentions.org. Big Hug.

Nottakingthebait:
Im so sorry fluttershy. Did you and this guy like each other before or date? Why is he acting like this?



--- Quote from: FlutterShy on December 09, 2013, 12:28:05 AM ---well... an update. and its not good.

I started work today, and this girl who is a mutual friend came up to me asked whats wrong. I mention that M is having a party and im not sure i dont think i was invited. Well, eventually she sent him a text and asked him me "hey was that a mistake? or did you invite (me)?" she then told me "the email was an oversight. but if i were to show up, i would physically be removed from the party." i did not ask her to talk for me, but i did think it would be smoother. But my heart sank, when I heard those words and then 20 minutes later he showed up to work.
I asked him, "hey do you have two seconds?"
"im busy with this."
"ok, can i call you after work."
"i really dont know what for."
then the girl who sent the text message intervienes and says "why not an email?"
"ok" we both agree to that.

im still at work and my shift is soon about to end. I still have phones ringing, and people requesting things for me as part of my job. Then someone asks "hey whats wrong?" And i lost it.
I then start to sob, uncontrollably and hide in the closet. 
My coworkers keep asking me "whats wrong?" and the guy who im having issues with is around.
Then the girl who intervened comes into the closet and says, "ok, i felt i was manipulated into that situation. you need to understand that he already talked to you and you should know why you're not invited."
-what the hell just happened? i thought this girl was being nice, and instead tells me to buck up and get over it... i am in disbelief.
Eventually, my co workers became involved in what i was crying about.

i drove home crying, embarrassed. i started to write that email, but gave up. ...i feel like im a joke. utterly humiliated and embarrassed.

...thank goodness i'm broke... cause right now, i would not stop calling psychics. i know deep down inside who cares what he thinks. But it hurts, and i'd like to trust that karma is there. (i know that when i bailed on friend once, my flight got delayed by a whole day and was a miserable night.) I dont know, i'd like to think that his party a delayed miserable flight coming his way... but... the main thing is... to wipe the dirt off, and pick myself up and more importantly dont look back.

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allbitenobark:
Do you have any idea why he would say something as aggressive as having you "physically removed" if you showed up to this party and why this other girl felt manipulated? Could the wife be causing issue?

On a side note, eff that girl because it seems like she was nosey to begin with then turned her back on you in the end. I hate fair weather friends and you're better off without her kind of friendship. I'm just really bummed to hear about anyone hurting you because it seems like you have a big heart. I hate being taken advantage of but it has happened to me too many times. I hope you feel better about all of this and know that you are the bigger person.

marybell:

--- Quote from: FlutterShy on December 09, 2013, 03:35:17 AM ---

thanks for responding. again, luckily, im broke so theres no calling psychics for me. and, if anything, i dont want to even try talking to this guy. i give up with this guy.

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Hi Flutterfly
This must be so heart breaking for you. I am so sorry to hear this.  I agree with everyone who says just F him , he is not your friend. Let him go.   If you don't mind my asking , what is it that you feel you could get from a psychic reading at this time??

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