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Timing of predictions
fiercefoxie:
--- Quote from: Bark angel on December 01, 2013, 08:18:17 PM ---Yes, I just experienced that exact situation myself. I had been getting readings from a very trusted psychic of mine for about 6 months. She kept saying something would breakthrough in November 2013. Well. I wait patiently through November and arrange a call with her on the last day of the month...BOOM - not only is there no contact seen now in November - but something has "shifted" and the love interest will now not contact me for about a "year or maybe two"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What???????????
I am heartbroken, to say the least.
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Oh man. I am sorry. :( That is a long time to have to wait! I hope she is wrong.
I would be upset too. I mean, I already am upset with my situation now because we are in NC and he announced in our last conversation he is seeing someone. Topaz (yes, I know people bashed her as self-advertising on here) has told me that there is no relationship between them and I will see it sever in the next few weeks. We will see. She was right regarding the situation where his ex gf was still in the picture, she assured me there was no romance, no sex and no relationship there between them and it looks like she has been out of the picture now for awhile.
allbitenobark:
Bark angel, I'm sorry to hear about the major change in your reading, but is it possible your reader could be stringing you along? Were they able to give you plausible and verifiable reasons for such an extreme shift?
Thank you for sharing the article about timing. It is definitely food for thought. I try to get readings for current situations only but it's difficult not to think of the timing predictions when the psychic throws it out on their own without you asking, know what I mean? It was an interesting description given of how spirits view time, tho. :D
Bark angel:
This reader is too ethical to string me along. Furthermore, there was an explanation given and that is that my love interest "made a decision that did not involve his heart, in fact, the decision was opposed to his emotions" to focus more attention on his current situation. It was presented as an "intellectual decision" and one that would provide him with some security that he views as necessary at this time. It was further described as an event in the future where he finds himself at a crossroads. One path would bring him back to me, the other path would extend the time he spends on his current situation. I suppose for a while the interim prediction was that he would choose the path that turns him back to me, but I was told that there are other entities influencing him, and some pressure that was applied by other entities has now changed the timing and moves him along the other path which keeps him away for up to a year or more. I was told that it could change in the meantime, but it is not seen right now, but that this only affects timing and not the final outcome.
--- Quote from: decibel.diva on December 02, 2013, 02:34:30 AM ---Bark angel, I'm sorry to hear about the major change in your reading, but is it possible your reader could be stringing you along? Were they able to give you plausible and verifiable reasons for such an extreme shift?
Thank you for sharing the article about timing. It is definitely food for thought. I try to get readings for current situations only but it's difficult not to think of the timing predictions when the psychic throws it out on their own without you asking, know what I mean? It was an interesting description given of how spirits view time, tho. :D
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copperhead:
--- Quote from: fiercefoxie on December 01, 2013, 10:08:20 PM ---
--- Quote from: Bark angel on December 01, 2013, 08:18:17 PM ---Yes, I just experienced that exact situation myself. I had been getting readings from a very trusted psychic of mine for about 6 months. She kept saying something would breakthrough in November 2013. Well. I wait patiently through November and arrange a call with her on the last day of the month...BOOM - not only is there no contact seen now in November - but something has "shifted" and the love interest will now not contact me for about a "year or maybe two"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What???????????
I am heartbroken, to say the least.
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Oh man. I am sorry. :( That is a long time to have to wait! I hope she is wrong.
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This is where free will should (MUST!) kick in. Contact the person in question. If he shows no interest, move on. And move on quickly. One year to wait??? And who know, maybe in a year, he'll show up again. But do you wait a year for someone in a limbo? Not living your life? Wasting potentials? A year is a long, long time...
Bark angel:
Copperhead -
I think what I was trying to explain is how I have been plagued with the notion that trusted advisors can predict some things with amazing accuracy and then how some predictions fail. It has troubled me for a long time. I now believe free will can push things out on predictions. But, as it was explained to me, it may affect the timing of things but not alter the overall predicted outcome.
Your response is interesting to me because it explains why I believe it is possible that a lot of people come back after a while and claim that some prediction never manifested because when timing becomes protracted they DO decide to change their willingness, receptiveness, patience or understanding and they do make decisions for themselves, perhaps against their own hearts a the time, that then has an impact on the predicted result.
The whole psychic prediction concept was explained to me by an advisor as "the expected outcome of a particular situation (situation being where "person A" feels this and "person B" feels that) after a series of events, but how many and what type of events that are to occur before the outcome manifests is subject to change and especially when there are multiple people involved - each having his or her own free will".
No psychic that I have ever consulted tells me to "wait". In fact they are quite clear that one must not "wait". The predicted outcome is based upon both parties following the path they are currently on as if no prediction had been given. So, in my opinion your recommendation that free will should (MUST) come into play is not necessary at all. In fact, I should just move forward as if I ahd not been given the prediction. Because if one reacts to information involved a prediction and changes ones path then perhaps that accounts for a prediction not manifesting at all. My view is this, if I am not to "wait" after receiving a prediction then the amount of time has little or no bearing on what I do. All I know is that if my feeling towards a person remains the same then chances are we will be reunited at some time in the future.
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--- Quote from: fiercefoxie on December 01, 2013, 10:08:20 PM ---
--- Quote from: Bark angel on December 01, 2013, 08:18:17 PM ---Yes, I just experienced that exact situation myself. I had been getting readings from a very trusted psychic of mine for about 6 months. She kept saying something would breakthrough in November 2013. Well. I wait patiently through November and arrange a call with her on the last day of the month...BOOM - not only is there no contact seen now in November - but something has "shifted" and the love interest will now not contact me for about a "year or maybe two"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What???????????
I am heartbroken, to say the least.
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Oh man. I am sorry. :( That is a long time to have to wait! I hope she is wrong.
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This is where free will should (MUST!) kick in. Contact the person in question. If he shows no interest, move on. And move on quickly. One year to wait??? And who know, maybe in a year, he'll show up again. But do you wait a year for someone in a limbo? Not living your life? Wasting potentials? A year is a long, long time...
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