Hi all, for the record, Yona is one of two people who has successfully seen that I am childfree. In my first reading with her, she said it point blank. my card, Queen of Swords crossed the Empress, and she said you are not naturally nurturing or maternal and you will *not* have a maternal role based on what she could see.
She's never once seen a kid in my cards. She's seeing a pet now,, which I do want and have wanted for a long time.
On the question of timing: typically the first card manifests within the month. But all else is a question mark. But there may be readings when the first card is not a specific event but like 'working hard' or as it came up, in my recent reading, disagreements with some figures related to work/career. so it's hard to identify. Then all bets are off.
