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Don't Put Your Faith in Psychics
marybell:
Time Heals
This is so incredible. Thank you so very much for sharing this. I haven't gotten a psychic reading for close to a year now, and I feel I have gotten my life back. This heaviness that has been on my chest has not totally lifted, but it's not as heavy as it was when I was relying on psychics to lift it off. I have spoken to a few wonderful psychics who helped partially, but not one of them had all the answers all of the time. And I have spoken to others that have taken me down the garden path, reversing all my good work. Now, I see, for me anyway, only time heals. ha ha .. wonderful name too!
allbitenobark:
I am not a religious person so for those of us that have different beliefs I will say this: PUT YOUR FAITH IN YOURSELF AND TRUST YOUR GUT INSTINCTS. After a going through this last bout of heartache with psychic readings it has become abundantly clear that they know nothing of any real consequence, at least for me and in my experience. NOTHING manifested as I was told. Even the negative readers were "right" for the wrong reasons. If I ever get a reading again it will truly be for entertainment purposes only. ;D
Awesomeness:
--- Quote from: decibel.diva on June 15, 2013, 08:19:22 PM ---I am not a religious person so for those of us that have different beliefs I will say this: PUT YOUR FAITH IN YOURSELF AND TRUST YOUR GUT INSTINCTS. After a going through this last bout of heartache with psychic readings it has become abundantly clear that they know nothing of any real consequence, at least for me and in my experience. NOTHING manifested as I was told. Even the negative readers were "right" for the wrong reasons. If I ever get a reading again it will truly be for entertainment purposes only. ;D
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Not to veer off topic, but I honestly think some readers are intentionally negative, especially with ex's, so that if they get it right, people think, "Oh they were honest with me! They were the only ones!" Chances are, 75% or more of us are not getting back with exes. It's the safest bet to say no!
They all want us to keep calling. Some spin fairy tales so that we'll call back to get updates or to ask, "Why didn't they call like you said they would?" Others, IMO, are negative so they are deemed "the honest ones" and you'll trust them and keep calling..
It's an endless cycle of desperation and anxiety.
fiercefoxie:
--- Quote from: Awesomeness on June 16, 2013, 01:05:33 AM ---
--- Quote from: decibel.diva on June 15, 2013, 08:19:22 PM ---I am not a religious person so for those of us that have different beliefs I will say this: PUT YOUR FAITH IN YOURSELF AND TRUST YOUR GUT INSTINCTS. After a going through this last bout of heartache with psychic readings it has become abundantly clear that they know nothing of any real consequence, at least for me and in my experience. NOTHING manifested as I was told. Even the negative readers were "right" for the wrong reasons. If I ever get a reading again it will truly be for entertainment purposes only. ;D
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Not to veer off topic, but I honestly think some readers are intentionally negative, especially with ex's, so that if they get it right, people think, "Oh they were honest with me! They were the only ones!" Chances are, 75% or more of us are not getting back with exes. It's the safest bet to say no!
They all want us to keep calling. Some spin fairy tales so that we'll call back to get updates or to ask, "Why didn't they call like you said they would?" Others, IMO, are negative so they are deemed "the honest ones" and you'll trust them and keep calling..
It's an endless cycle of desperation and anxiety.
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I think that is a very good theory. I haven't had many that said "no" but a few have. I don't call them back because what they told me is not what I believe nor desire. I like the calls that back-up what it is I believe in.
Awesomeness:
Yeah, I tend to believe ones who can back it up. But I think some say "no" to almost everybody and aren't even trying to connect to the situation, only because "no" is the safest answer to "Am I getting back together with my ex?" So you'll say, "Oh, she was the only honest one!" When in reality, they were ALL guessing. I think the same of them as those who spin fairy tales without really knowing. Both want the same thing - for you and me to keep calling back. They just go about it a different way.
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