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This place is a mess. Don't trust anyone!!!

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Synergy:
In the past couple of years, I have shared a lot on this forum.  I haven't done so for myself.  I've done so in hopes of helping others find the right reader or help others see that this whole thing is bs.  At the same time the entire experience has been cathartic, and it has led me to meet some wonderful people.

With that said, it has come to my attention that a reader I have recommended has received messages about me.  People use my name, my handle, my information... anything they can share in order to get "unblocked" or to receive a reading.  This is insane and ridiculous.  It's sad to think I can't trust people who I honestly believed I could share stuff with because we have all been in pain, and we all can commiserate.  Note, this has happened on more than one occassion. 

I think some people in here have proven to be mentally disturbed.  I don't know who you are, I don't know why you would use my name without my permission, but it's uncalled for.  I have not shared so much of myself here simply for that information to be used in an effort to be unblocked by a reader.  It's bizarre.  This isn't my life.  This is part of my life that I can't discuss with friends or family, so I come here to discuss it with all of you, but now I feel like I can't even do that because a reader I trust has asked me not to recommend them anymore because they are being harassed.  That's truly unfortunate.  It saddens me that this place has turned into what it has.  I don't even know who to trust anymore. 

Good luck to everyone.  Thanks for ruining my "relationship" with the one reader I trust.  This is BS. 

psychicgirlie:
This is completely unfortunate and I'm so sorry to hear about this Syn. I would come in to read your posts specifically because it seemed like we both connected with most of the same readers. I'm sad to hear that people would run and tell a certain reader about your posts or recommendations of them. It's really a damn shame.. I hope you don't disappear completely from the boards as you've helped me with my process a lot..

Amaranth:
Synergy- this is absolutely sickening to hear.  This is why I also haven't updated my own threads- happily, several of my predictions came to pass and some were on spot for timing.  I would love so much to help others by telling my personal experiences, but the vindictive general tone of this forum keeps me from doing it.  I said last year and I'll say again: we need mods.  It won't 100% end the problems, but it will curb a lot of ugly situations.

Synergy, you are a beautiful, strong, highly intelligent woman and because of that, people tend to make a target of you.  'Wounded is the deer that leaps highest'.  Some people would rather cut a fellow down because that's easier than doing the work to rise to their more enlightened level.

You have always been such an objective, strong, and rational, clear-thinking voice on this forum.  You will definitely be missed.

jordie:
So sorry synergy, what someone did was pathetic and sick. I always enjoyed your posts as you were refreshingly honest and very generous with your experiences. Sad that this can't be done anymore.

jen80:
@synergy we never got off  on the right foot but I pray that someone did not trully do that as it would suck hard. I believe in karma and so if someone did that then may they get karma.

I only read with kisha, queen,sapphire and lakhei.

If someone uses you to get unblocked then their reading will be fake and they will continue to be in a cycle. God/universe doesn't like ugly.

I wish you luck.

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