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jen80:
Hi guys I would like your thoughts on this question. If a reader tells you what will happen can you actively decide to change the outcome?. In the same sense if a reader tells you that you are about to break up with your partner and the reason why, is it possible to change that? Am just wondering. I got a reading with someone a while ago and she told me that I would fight with my sister and then told me steps to prevent it which I did and a fight was averted so that got me thinking. What do you guys think?.

Truth:
well yeah. at the end of the day we are always the person taking the actual action. a reader may be able to pick up that we want to, or will want to break up with someone. but it's up to you to pull the trigger. at that point, it gets into that weird zone about whether you allowed or prevented what the reader said you'd do. however, when you have insight into the situation you can make clearer choice, and i think thats why readings are really helpful. when the reader is looking at the OTHER person and making predictions i guess it's similar, except the other person is just following along the energy that is already there.

there is a quote from The Matrix that i think is good. it's when Neo knocks over the vase when he's talking to the Oracle. she says something like
"what's really going to bake your noodle later on is, would you still have broken it if I hadn't said anything?"

ideally though, the reading is supposed to empower you with clarity so you can make better decisions.

Synergy:
I agree with Truth.  Ultimately, you have control of your life.   The last reading I had, the reader told me that she could give me paths and tips on how to achieve my desired outcome.  She emphasized my own power when it comes to achieving my desired goals, whether they be in love, work, or any other area of life.  I don't knock it, but I'm not a big fan of manifestation... I don't know why, I just never have been, so that's not what I'm talking about.  I just think that you have to be true to yourself no matter what a reader tells you. 

When I was calling about C, so many readers told me to agree to be his friend.  Well, I didn't want to be his friend!! I couldn't be his friend while he was out partying with different women every night and waking up naked on his sofa after we had split.  I knew I couldn't put myself through that. I flat out told him I couldn't be his friend and even "unfriended" him on Facebook.  So, yes, maybe I changed my outcome, but so what?  Yes, sometimes we have to make sacrifices for the ones we love, but we can't make sacrifices that essentially compromise who you are at your core.  You have to be true to yourself, first and foremost, before anyone can love you. 

Readings should be used as a tool... they should be viewed objectively.  A reader may tell you you're doomed.  Some readers have told me I'm going to get pregnant this year.  Guess what?  I'm definitely going to take measures for that NOT to happen.  Why?  Because I do have control over my life and my actions.  Readings can help us decide what actions we will take, but I don't think they are the end all, be all.  You can't lose your identity, your desires, or your power as a result of these readings. 

I think I feel better about readings when I think of the predicted outcome as an option.  If the reader gives me guidance, I have to really ask myself if I am capable of following through on that advice.  If not, then I just can't take it.  I don't think anyone should feel defeated simply because a reader says it's over.  You have to do what you think is best.  I also think, though, that we should make certain decisions based on REALITY.  If a guy hasn't spoken to you in years, maybe it's time to move on.  Who knows?  He may come back in 10 years, but there's no reason to put your life on hold and agonize as you wait for his return.  Don't wait. Live.

Ok, sorry, I think I tackled 20 issues in this post, but I've been through the ringer with readings. Haha.  In the end, I realized that as much as I love psychics, I can't take these readings as seriously as I used to. 

loops77:
Assuming that the reader is actually gifted, I think some things can be avoided. I believe these things are small things, though. Fights, traffic accidents, choosing where to eat. Certain things in life will happen to you..destined things will happen. So if you were destined to have a huge fight with your sister...it will happen no matter how you try to avoid it. The problem  is that we don't always know what is destined or not.

Saying that, I don't think free will is the opposite of destiny. They are intricately intertwined in some cases.

I've had readers that have told me to "be his friend" until he gets it together. I think at that point, they are just giving advice and not reading anything psychic. They should have clearly seen that there would be no "friendship" bt us if I can't be with the person in the way that I wanted. Why not say that this is a no go instead? Rarely does settling get you what you want in the end, either....

Truth:
i guess i think about this question like Astrology. since i've studied this for so long it sounds like how i try to approach this.
as an Astrologer, you should be able to tell people when fights are likely, or when you will feel like breaking things off, etc. however, that energy could be fleeting. the job, at that point, is to guide the person to understand that it could be an impulsive decision and the choice is theirs to ride it out or react to the energy and act.

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