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"Not Being Shown"

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sarahkw:

--- Quote from: hope4love on January 30, 2013, 04:47:35 AM ---@sarahkw:  as difficult as it is to let things play out (sometimes), it's usually the best course of action, especially when it comes to relationships.
We have no control over another person, only ourselves.
I have come to the conclusion that when we let a situation play itself out (whether or not we're forced to do so), the end result it how it's supposed to be and for our highest good.
This happens when we let go and detach from a situation and how we want things to play out.
You may not come to this realization until some time has passed and that's normal.  It takes time and distance to see things clearly and objectively. 

Ultimately, we are the guiding force of our lives, not a reader. A good, ethical reader will encourage you to listen to yourself when making decisions and not to give your power away to someone else.

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Very well said, Hope! Letting go is difficult but ultimately, it ends up better than you hoped for. :)

hope4love:
Amen!  I learned my lesson the hard way.   :P

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