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REASONS YOUR EX IS NOT WITH YOU

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marybell:
@ Presence  , I agree with you.  Just before the holidays , I started a topic in the forum, addressing this exactly. I intentionally called a feel good psychic because I was really down in the dumps.  He made me feel better because I needed something to believe in for a little while.  I was not worried about crashing because deep down I knew the truth and why I called him for a reading
@ Jen , I am wondering if it was the same for you. It sounds like you called a million psychics and in the end you only respect the ones who told you he wasn't returning, almost as though you already knew this to be true.   Sure there are a lot of rip off and scam artists on Keen, but you make it sound like you feel everyone , except those 3 you mentioned,  lied and tricked you and you had no control over your calling them.  Is it possible that what Presence said could be true for you too?
In fact, I was in the chat room a little while ago.   Someone sadly announced that she had just gotten a reading that felt right to her, but was disappointing to her.  She was told it was the end of her relationship and it was time to move on. She felt truly relieved to finally hear what she knew deep down to be the truth, and determined to move on.  Most in the chat room encouraged her to ignore that reading because the psychic could be wrong.  I found that to be a really curious thing to occur that we were giving her feel good advice.  And, oh, btw, I asked permission before sharing this. 

jen80:
@marybell it is true that when one is hurting that you would look for someone to keep you in that fantasy. If a mother sees her only child in a situation that is not good she will not say to the child you are correct stay in your fantasy so that you will not be  hurt. No, a real good mother will pull her child out and give her tough love and hold her. It is true these people are not our parents or friends and do not owe us any loyality to say the truth. That can also be said for victims of fraud that it is the victim's fault. No the three I mentioned are not always 100 percent correct but there is something to be said that if someone gives you a fantasy to make you feel good why continue to make money off you. Many times I tried to leave my fantasy land when reality was not measuring up to what this reader was feeding me and the reader told me to ignore all warnings that she was seeing the correct thing and that I should believe her alone. When i end my calls she would say oh when you call again I have something to tell you which of course made me call again. I would call twice a day at times. It was mostly stories with no real predictions. I had readers that didn't want to hurt me and would tell me something not as bad but when I would call again they would not take my call for a while and when I eventually get to them they would tell me that nothing has changed and again not take my calls. I believe they did not want to rip me off. When you take advantage of someone's misery for profit there is eventually a price to pay. The same also can be said if someone tells a client that their relationship is over when it is not. If you don't see anything tell the client you didn't see anything because these are people's emotions, yes it is for entertainment purposes but none of us believe its not real and readers don't tell us before they start oh you know am fake this is for entertainment. I have read with a lot of readers and these three are the ones that work for me after spending thousands. They may not work for others and I kept them not because of what they said about my ex but because of other parts of my life. The three are not special only to me on this site and other places they are praised by many.

marybell:
I see it like this.  A while ago before I found this forum, I got a reading with one of the most trusted advisers talked about on this site.
Many see her as super gifted and totally ethical.  Initially, during the reading I thought she was awesome. It wasn't that she picked up on tiny details of my life, it was that she seemed to know what my relationship was all about.
She wasn't perfect , but I felt she was as I said awesome with most of it.  Then after about 45 minutes in, she said something that was SO WRONG that I could not take the rest of what she said seriously.  It was advice that was based on her totally incorrect premise  and even had she been correct, what she had suggested was  impossible to act on.   It then occurred to me that almost everything that she said before this point could apply to almost anyone hurting in a relationship.
Of course, I decided not to call her again.  I could see by her feedback that she was wonderful for others, but she clearly was not the adviser for me.
Soon afterwards, while I was seeking for "the" perfect adviser (which we all know doesn't exist),  I found this forum.  So much praise about her!  So much that I have thought of calling her again. I keep thinking that maybe I should forgive her that one huge wrong and try again because all the other stuff she said sounded so darn good and she even continues to send me minutes!  I am wondering , if I call her again, after "knowing"  I did not have a connection with her the first time, whose to blame if I spend thousands of dollars for the ultimate fantasy  that never comes my way?

jen80:
@ marybell okay.                              @ people before me that were victimized. You are not alone, it is not your fault. depression and heartbreak is different for different people. In matters of love a normally strong person can become very weak. You were victimized and though you called the readers it did not give anybody the right to use that to hurt you. I know most of us don't go back and write feedbacks on their page because of shame or fear but don't worry the universe will fight for you. Even here you don't make your prescence known by writing so as you look through all these posts know that it will get better one day.              @ those coming after me who have not be victimized please be careful. If something doesn't feel right stop stop. Beware, beware, beware but if you do fall into a reader's unethical grasp come back to this forum and reread everything and something you read may help you come out. Stay safe everyone as you go through readers  and always remember it will get better.

marybell:

--- Quote from: jen80 on January 27, 2013, 11:13:51 PM ---@ marybell okay.                              @ people before me that were victimized. You are not alone, it is not your fault. depression and heartbreak is different for different people. In matters of love a normally strong person can become very weak. You were victimized and though you called the readers it did not give anybody the right to use that to hurt you. I know most of us don't go back and write feedbacks on their page because of shame or fear but don't worry the universe will fight for you. Even here you don't make your prescence known by writing so as you look through all these posts know that it will get better one day.              @ those coming after me who have not be victimized please be careful. If something doesn't feel right stop stop. Beware, beware, beware but if you do fall into a reader's unethical grasp come back to this forum and reread everything and something you read may help you come out. Stay safe everyone as you go through readers  and always remember it will get better.

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Hi Jen
I do not feel victimized at all. She has great feedback, and it's obvious that she is wonderful for many. We did not connect that's all.  She probably thought she was giving me a great reading.  I feel I would only be a victim of my own addiction if  I call her again. Also, Jen, I never leave bad feedback.  I don't see any value in sharing that we did not connect, and also because I carefully research  who I call, I never wind up calling scam artists who I feel a need to expose .

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