Relationship Psychology Discussions > The Vent
WRONG again
Furah2fun:
Thanks synergy for posting!!! You are a smart cookie IMO.
elcaliente:
syn,
Your posts are helpful and I'm sorry if you felt that others regarded them as discouraging. Only you can determine how long you are willing to give a particular psychic's prediction time to manifest. I'm well known to be the eternal optimist, and perhaps inclined to give more time to something in order for it to materialize, but that is a personal choice. That, ultimately is your decision based upon the circumstances and your own intuition.
That being said, I am a little confused that the individual in question just told you that he wants to be friends as you were, when it appears he has been in hot pursuit of you since the summer. I wonder if he isn't trully in denial of the nature of his interest in you. Typically, friends are not in pursuit of each other in that way, in my opinion. Nevertheless, it is your choice and your choice alone, whether you consider a reading accurate for your purposes or not.
Synergy:
Thanks everyone.
I will be honest... I hung on to the idea of C returning for far too long. I still check his and his girlfriend's Facebook pages each week, sometimes more than once a week. First, I was doing this with the hope that I would one day see that they were broken up. After a few months, I would do this so that I could see that they are still together, as this would be the only way I could let go. Since I still check their pages regularly, I guess I can't say I've let go. Their relationship is what made me stop asking psychics about him, though. He made a decision... a clear one. A decision that has nothing to do with me. What is there for me to hang on to? I am in no way saying that everyone here should let go. I have so much hope for each and everyone of you. In fact, all my hope for C has probably been transferred as hope for all of your relationships. I look forward to coming on the forum. Every day I think it may be the day that someone has good news.
In this current situation, I have to take what this man says at face value. I have to. I don't want a year to go by with me still asking readers about him. I don't want to be checking his Facebook page in 2014. I don't want to ask our mutual friends if he has mentioned me. I've done this already. I can't allow this to become a pattern. It made sense in a way with C because I was convinced he was different from any other man. Heck, Sandy Esther predicted him coming into my life before he did! I thought he would be the one. I had all these hopes and dreams, which he actually played into in the beginning by being a prince. But it didn't last. He made the choice to walk away. I hung on for too long. Hoping, wishing, waiting. If I make a similar decision about this new guy, and continue hoping, I'll be doing myself a disservice. We were friends who hopped into bed together one night. It happens all the time. He's no prince charming, and this isn't a romantic comedy.
With that said, let me go look at C's Facebook page and read his lovey dovey posts, so I can get two things in my head. When a man loves a woman, he will show her. Yes, some men get scared. Some men fall in love, but aren't ready for it yet. Other men are simply scumbags. I can't spend my life deciphering which is which. Second, I need to convince myself these men aren't coming back... and if by some miracle, one of them does, it'll be a nice surprise. There's no use for me to "know" about it beforehand because I am anticipating something and being miserable in the meantime.
You'd think after all that said and after almost 3 years of calling readers, I would be done. The truth is, I know I'll keep calling. I still have my favorites. For today, I am simply discouraged. Tomorrow the romantic optimist in me may rise again.
oben:
Synergy,
I have to say your last posting gave me goose bumps, it was like you wrote about me...you are not alone, I am on the same boat with you, hated myself sometimes for doing so, but this is life, lets hope that 2013 will give us all the closure we really deserve, time for us to be happy :)
loops77:
Cheer up Syn. Well, there is at least one good thing that came out of this...Kisha has been right again for you. Now you know just to call her whenever you get the itch to read again. Since she has been the most consistant for you, why not get a read about the future guy that will be "the one" or at least a good "Mr. Right Now" ? I've done that with LadyPersephone.
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