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SarahM:
He gave me the same rollercoaster line too

aquagirl:
I'm not sure why people get upset over the use of the same "line", I think it's just a person's mannerism. We all have go to phrases that we probably don't even realize that we use on the regular. I don't think this is something to be upset about. now if a person is saying the same thing, ie outcome, mannerism, etc. to each person then that would be alarming. not that a persons vocabulary changes.

I have yet to read him, are there any updates? his reviews look great.

midwest60:
I had 4 readings with him over a couple of days.  I haven't dated anyone in years and wanted a read on a guy I worked with.  Unfortunately, for me, he was wrong.  His readings suggested the guy was interested in me and just shy. However, I went out with the guy and he treated the time as a business data, and then continued to back off to cover his tracks.  So TJ was wrong....he was not into me. And, this is why I don't date! :)

aquagirl:

--- Quote from: midwest60 on May 06, 2022, 12:30:50 AM ---I had 4 readings with him over a couple of days.  I haven't dated anyone in years and wanted a read on a guy I worked with.  Unfortunately, for me, he was wrong.  His readings suggested the guy was interested in me and just shy. However, I went out with the guy and he treated the time as a business data, and then continued to back off to cover his tracks.  So TJ was wrong....he was not into me. And, this is why I don't date! :)

--- End quote ---

Can i add something, in my experience the shy guys act like they aren't into you when they are. i know over the years i often found out they were into me years later, but too shy to make it known and i too oblivious to pick up on the slightest hints. Not saying you're oblivious lol  A guy doesn't usually waste his time going out with a woman for business data alone, that can be achieved in a number of different ways that aren't so personal.  I could be wrong of course. but I wouldn't write it off completely in case he's just one of those guys that is really crappy at this stuff.   Continued to back of to cover his tracks? how do you mean? 

I'm just trying to give you another perspective. I just know from experience that i have had men who'd be classic "he's not that into you " types to end up learning later that they were that into me lol hope i make sense through this migraine.

midwest60:
Thanks. I appreciate your insight.  However, what is weird is this "guy" is very wordly and in his mid-50's. I don't think he is aware that I am 10 years older....perhaps he thinks I am only 5 years.  Anyway, despite how strong he is professionally, he was very awkward.

What is more strange...and what I can offer to this group....is that I used to be one of those people who hung on every guy's words and wondered "when will he call" etc etc.   I grew out of that phase and thought I would never feel that way again. However, this is the first guy who has given me butterflies in a long time and the anxiety started up all over again.

At least the sadness that comes from a "weird date" only lasted a few days. 

I will let you know if this shy guy changes direction. You are sweet, aqua girl.

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