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SomethingBetter:
Hahaha it's a joking title, but a serious subject.

We've all, at one point or another had readers we believed and trusted because they seemed to know the situation or backstory oh so well, only to find out along the way they were dead wrong. I had it happen to me long ago, and tbh, it was almost as bad as the lost relationship at that time! I felt betrayed and confused and lost. Like I said, we have probably all been there.

My question is, where draw the line when someone you liked and trusted was obviously wrong? Do you decide to read with them about other things still? Do you cut off the relationship altogether? Do you chalk it up to them being human an not getting every one right? What if the situation is obviously bad and they overtly whitewashed it and painted a pretty picture?

The past year I read with: Mystikka (an old fave), Kisha, Sunhee Park, Cookie, Michelle Caporale, and Allison Hayes. Oh and Gaylene. Forgot her lol.

The list has narrowed to Kisha who is always consistently right for me on predictions, actual predictions, not things I just take her word for or assume to be true based off "knowing" the person or situation. (lol cause technically if I really knew the person or situation I would have seen it coming and wouldn't have been in the predicament.)

I may contact Mystikka every few months because she has never led me wrong and I don't need an empath or spiritual advice at this point.

So, my question for everyone else is, when will you/did you draw the line with a reader or favorite reader who was obviously wrong? Will you or did you continue to consult with them and what has you maintaining the relationship?

:) have a good one

hope4love:
I like the title of this thread and I've posted about my experience in previous threads.

For me, I have a long fuse and I tend to hang onto a situation/relationship longer than I should. I'm learning to cut ties sooner than later for my own well-being.
When we develop a rapport with a particular reader, it's easy to 'overlook' things like he/she is actually wrong about the situation/person in question or they've been feeding you a fairytale all along.  We start to think of them as friends even. Sometimes I think it's difficult for the reader to be honest about telling the client not to call so often because of the financial aspect for them. Let's be honest here, how many readers are willing to turn away the business?

In my case, I spent several years talking to one reader about 3 different men.  Looking back in hindsight, she was giving me a snow job the first two men I was calling her about. While she has a positive view about guy no. 3, I'm not wasting any more money for fairytales. 
Of course, she would give me the 'another guy arriving on the scene' spiel too.   >:(

What made me decide to stop talking to her? I ran a mental tally of the money I had spent over the years speaking to her and how many of her "predictions" came through, which is practically zilch.  I grew tired of her giving me the same sounding spiels and yes, she did put the blame on me on a couple of occasions for things not manifesting. Puuuhleeze!
Plus she would call me 'dear friend'... no, I do not pay to talk to dear friends! 

If a reader also starts giving me attitude and starts acting arrogant as if his/her takes are accurate, no matter what, then I draw the line. I spoke to another reader (who is much loved on this site) for quite some time as well and the final straw was her haughty attitude that began giving me. 
She was very accurate about a number of things but also VERY DEAD wrong about others too:
- cards of love between this short lived guy and me. (nope, it was rebound situation for both of us so there is no way in hell there was love)
- up and down connection between this guy and his girlfriend and they wouldn't make it (they're happily married with two kids)
- my lost love has lost his job (nope, he's still gainfully employed at the same firm)
 ??? ???

Finally, one reader whom I've been consulting for the past 5 years is someone whom I will continue to consult occasionally, only because she's blunt and straight to the point and we click.
Her outcomes haven't been all that great but she is great at reading the present scenario, especially when there is another party involved. I disregard her outcome predictions. 
Plus she gives excellent perspectives about life given her age.  I find it difficult to take life advice from someone who is much younger than me.  (no offense intended by this but it's how I feel about this kind of thing)

My two cents worth.

jordie:
I only recently started asking about things other than relationships and that is because I did not totally trust all the readers I read with before finding a few readers from this board. I too hung on to long with some readers and it was finding the few I trust now that made me cut off the others. No one before sapphire, Gaylene or kisha ever gave me something I could validate before. I did have a few I thought I had a connection with but when they said "this is what will happen in a few months but if it doesn't then move on".  Seriously?  Lol. That was the end for me. I also read with someone who was more wrong than right. Once the wrong outweighs the right I am done. I am tempted at times to try someone new but as long as my current ones are right I don't want to take that risk. Now that I have branched out past the relationship questions I will have no problem dropping a current reader if they end up wrong about other things. I am not as forgiving with wrong info as I used to be.

Zenia:
I also sum up the hits contra the misses,and then decide whether i will take someone off my fave-list.That list have been drastically altered since i started on Keen 6 years ago :)
In the beginning i was incredible naive.The plus with being a veteran is that i now have very high standards.And some ability in "hearing/knowing"if what they say if correct.(i also use my own cards and methods of insights that help me support my inner feelings)
Of cource not totally,otherwise is i wouldnt have had the need to call.

The most disappointing have been when a reader starts off first time call,incredibly well without tools,with stunning details.For in the following readings have to rely on tarotcards,and not even get that right.
Have anyone also felt this?They go off my list,not matter how great the first impression they made was.

The problem rises when someone is 50% WOW-good,and gives a type of reading no one else does,and then the same reader is 50% dreadfully off on another matter..Ahh..

Then the attitude problem..I have about 3 readers with attitude.But they are all brutally honest,and mostly dead on.I almost feel every call is a burden,and i have to mobilize guts to make the call.But their accuracy weighs up for it.That says a lot about all the warm and caring readers i could have called,but that dont get things quite as right...

Then on one occation i was tried swindled into buying an expensive healing from my most trusted reader through many years.I totally trusted her,she knew i was vulnerable,so that came as a bomb.The money she wanted "to heal"me was insane.I left her one star for that,and a warning to others.She blocked me of cource.
Looking back the loss of her maybe wasnt worth it.Maybe i should have kept silent..

loops77:
Zenia, just wondering, how much did she want?

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