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cj:
look guys..I know looking towards thh future sucks........///.......but um.........Im 25 and Im ready to get married and pop out some babies! ahorta! now! Im going to be done with my masters this summer and I pretty much have everything I need..except...a man! lol

Luckystar:
"well if she was 15 yrs wrong...isnt that kind of ...um...idk...depressing lol.. *who the hell wants to wait that long."

a couple of times when i read with Eden last year, she was explaining the situation between me and my sm and she said "you guys are meant to be together, but i just keep seeing that the timing is off"....so you never know how long you might have to wait, if you CHOOSE to wait that is.

cj:
but doesnt it seem like there's no choice in the matter at all..like really..if you choose to wait..its years of being lonely..or whatever/being held back...and if you choose to leave then its like the fight was for nothing.

It almost seems as if someone up there is laughing at us lol

Luckystar:
your kitties are soooo cute :)


cjean you said:
"but doesnt it seem like there's no choice in the matter at all"

you know after i read a bunch of books about reincarnation, karma, and destiny i started having all these questions flowing through my mind. i also felt like things were totally out of my control. one day i even asked my parents if they ever felt like someone was watching us from above deciding things for us....to put it in an analogy, i said "don't you ever feel like we are sometimes like robots, and there is a higher power controlling things with remotes or something?" you should have seen my dads face LOL, he thought i was insane.

cj:
csk....I feel like we think alike lol...no but it does seem that way..it seems like it is preplanned..

for instance..my friend T...who married her ex after 4 years apart only met one guy at that time..and the guy broke up with her! So her ex moved in on her........ but I mean...really...in 4 years...I have dated more than one guy and it seems like maybe her guy was meant for her...bc she didnt have a choice...things just happened to and for her...

so in other words...why the hell are we given a choice though?

but idk...Abrielle once told me that you wont meet another sm if there's still that open door of opp for the one your stuck on...but after a while a choice will be given to you and you will be released to another sm....so why didnt my friend get another sm?

how come hers was the one person she really wanted to be with....idk
I think about this stuff

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