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sarahkw:
I've learned a LOT on my spiritual journey over the last 5 or so years, about how long I've been calling psychics. I decided to share and see if maybe my story helps someone.

I started calling psychics after a guy, R, broke up with me. We were soul mates and I was past devastated. I don't even know how many I called but to say there were a lot would be a massive understatement. I eventually found Debra - WhiteLightAngel - and within a couple of times of talking to her, I stopped calling everyone else. Her advice coupled with her insights did me wonders. Before I connected with her, I was a MESS. It was not a good stretch of time for me, at all.

She would often tell me R was just 'sitting there.' He'd be about to call then stop. He got a new job and wanted me to know. But didn't call. I later learned all of this happened. She was insistent that he'd come back into the picture. I believed her for a while. Then he didn't come around. Recently, she said 'an ex is going to contact you.' My bet was on another guy, if anyone did. But guess who sent me an email out of the blue the other day, fishing to see if I was open to reconnecting? If you guessed R, you guessed right.

I've occasionally called Debra over the years for things and I have to say, she's been dead on. She predicted things with school, internships, friends, family... And I love the validations I get from her.

As I've been working to make a move in my career, I've consulted with Debra again as well as Sapphire, Kisha and Barbara. They all told me I'd get a job offer in December. I have. But if I take it, I have to move to another city and while this is, in ways, the perfect job for me, I'm really struggling on the move part and so I've consulted them all except Barbara over the last few days as well as NorthStarJulie who I saw recommended here.

To their credit, none of them have said 'you do this.' They've all told me its ultimately my decision. They have all also said its essentially a personal vs. professional move. Sapphire really struggled - she didn't want to TELL me what to do but her guides were insistently giving her a message and so she finally told me exactly what I was feeling - staying would be the best, would make me happy. But I wouldn't be miserable if I moved. Debra had a similar message while Kisha also said staying would be fine and I'd get another opportunity soon (Sapphire said this too) but leaving would open me up to 'future opportunities.' Julie was the most straightforward. She said 'on a personal level, you need to stay. If you want professional opportunities, you need to go.' My ultimate goal is happiness and so staying it is.

We'll see how this cookie crumbles!

Meanwhile, I've asked them some 'boy' questions at the tail end of these recent calls no. First about R who they all said two things: 1) He's in a different place than he was when you were together and is opening the door to see if you're interested and 2) He's a soul mate and he senses you're about to really move on. They all also were able to pick up on the fact that I'm not interested. We're a world a part now, not just in miles, and while he was a significant person in my life, he's no longer my heart's desire.

I also asked about J, a guy my mom and her boss (his mom) are trying to set me up with. All of them say we'll hit it off. Kisha and Debra think we'll date but nothing serious will happen. Julie and Sapphire gave me a little more detail though and said he'll be very interested. It will fall on me to move forward. They both urged me to give him a real chance past the initial meeting. Again, we'll see how that cookie crumbles!

I haven't mentioned much about Barbara. I read with her once and she nailed multiple things and several predictions have unfolded concerning family drama among small things like a little legal issue, California... I may read with her again before the holidays, just because she proved to be amazingly good for me.

So that's my story in a nutshell. I'm in a far better place these days then when I first picked up the phone. I have my own intuition that I trust infinitely. For me, calling these advisers helps me trust my own gut.

hope4love:
Thanks for sharing your story and kudos to you for coming such a long way. I can so relate to being in an emotional mess and calling numerous psychics.  I'm not at all surprised that your ex contacted you after all this time; it happens more often than people think.
I do believe that we're all intuitive and yes, it seems that when an ex 'feels' you're truly going to move on, then bang! they reach out to you. 
I've been experiencing something similar with someone from my past whom I feel is my 'true soulmate'.  I definitely get the feeling that he wants to be in my life again but it's too late. I'm a much different person now than when we first met and I have no desire to be with him in a relationship. I don't know about a friendship and I'll cross that bridge when I get to it. 
I've learned that just because someone is your soulmate, you don't necessarily end up with that person. 
We have the answers within and sometimes it takes a while before the answers emerge.  When we're emotionally distraught, we're not able to gauge our intuition properly but it's there.

sarahkw:
I really love this! Not too long ago, I 'let R go' for good. I'd long ago moved past him but I still had the cords if you will. I cut him loose and it was an immediate relief. Sapphire told me the flood gates would open in December when I as complaining about things being so stagnant for so long. She wasn't kidding. Geez!


--- Quote from: hope4love on November 29, 2012, 03:02:49 AM ---Thanks for sharing your story and kudos to you for coming such a long way. I can so relate to being in an emotional mess and calling numerous psychics.  I'm not at all surprised that your ex contacted you after all this time; it happens more often than people think.
I do believe that we're all intuitive and yes, it seems that when an ex 'feels' you're truly going to move on, then bang! they reach out to you. 
I've been experiencing something similar with someone from my past whom I feel is my 'true soulmate'.  I definitely get the feeling that he wants to be in my life again but it's too late. I'm a much different person now than when we first met and I have no desire to be with him in a relationship. I don't know about a friendship and I'll cross that bridge when I get to it. 
I've learned that just because someone is your soulmate, you don't necessarily end up with that person. 
We have the answers within and sometimes it takes a while before the answers emerge.  When we're emotionally distraught, we're not able to gauge our intuition properly but it's there.

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hope4love:
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Jonnie:
Thank you so much for sharing your story with us all....It inspired me not to give up, to have hope..and not to give in to my fears....thank you...moving on is hard to do not to live frozen in the past when the other party has moved on, but you keep holding on and on, and on..I dont want to be that person any longer...

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