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Is anyone else feeling shitty like me
positivethoughts:
Angel - I'm sorry but there is only one thing you can do - retreat!! Don't contact him, don't text him, email, nothing. Your silence will speak volumes. And, while you retreat maybe line up another date? He will come back around. Did Ellen see any type of future with this guy?
big hugs
PT
aef2929 P:
Angel I wouldn't give the silence thing after the date any energy. I've been busy and have been reading back and it seems all this is as new to him as it is to you and he's coming from a broken relationship also. You know men handle things differently and he seems like a nice guy but remember for you that you're the female and he has to chase you! You always want to leave him wanting more.....more contact...more conversation....don't give it all up all at once otherwise what's there for him to wonder or want to keep going after? He seems like a good guy but you have to move into a little flip here....he's leaving you wanting more and you have to flip that. Next contact don't answer so fast...you DON'T have to answer the phone when he calls or answer the next text/email whatever as soon as he sends it.....he did that to you...you're supposed to be the one doing that to him!!! Remember you're busy....living life....if you're always available he'll be sure of you...pursue those he's not sure of because he's not sure of that one or this one and he will feel oh I have to keep tabs on this girl because Angel is there she always answers....you want to flip that. And next date I would not spend all that time with him etc....you have to leave him not getting his fill of you! And you have to do this with the KNOWING he WILL text you again....he WILL call you back....he WILL ask you out again....remember it's all about you girl! You're worth it! If you know it he'll know it!!! I feel like this guy is a good energy for you so you just have to know it and flip the movement...it's his chase! ;)
AngelGuided:
Thanks PT and AEF2929! You're both right about all of this. I have not contacted him since yesterday morning when I left voice text. My daughter had put a post on fb yesterday that I had responded to, stating that she and I had gone to dinner. So, he knows what my evening last night consisted of. I didn't learn til several hours after that he had gone out to dinner, coincidentally around the same time and I went to the grocery store after dinner and the BWW he went to is next door to this grocery store. Evidently, he frequents BWW quite a bit.
Thanks AEF, you gave me some reassurance! Thanks for the hug PT, I needed it!
--- Quote ---I feel like this guy is a good energy for you so you just have to know it and flip the movement...it's his chase!
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What do you mean by this? Do you have psychic or intuitive ability?
cj:
good advice aef :)
positivethoughts:
Really? I didn't think any of the trackers worked unless both 'parties' (stalker and stalkee) had it installed. Will be interested in your findings angel.
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