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Is anyone else feeling shitty like me
AngelGuided:
Yeah, where is libra? Of course, Kira you would expect the guy to be wanting more of you...in this case, the roles are reversed. So, if you didn't go far enough initially you would lose interest in the guy? As far as the honesty goes, he seems to be very honest. He's hasn't pretended that I'm aware of or played games. He's very direct. That's what's so interesting, I've always been a very honest person, but when I'm talking to him, I say things that I wouldn't normally reveal. It's very honest...and he is the same. :)
cj:
great advice fm.... 8) *who knew* lol...kira...we're on clouds right now me and you lol...floating and man dating lol..libra :( hope you feel better...angel...see..when u relax..good things will come...
and..
lmao at aef: "salivate" <----------as in dog? lol
AngelGuided:
LMAO @ Cjean ;D
AngelGuided:
AEF, love the potato chip analogy! :P
kirakira:
--- Quote ---Kira you would expect the guy to be wanting more of you...in this case, the roles are reversed. So, if you didn't go far enough initially you would lose interest in the guy?
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Well, angel, I know instantly whether or not I could be physical with a guy. And then the question is if there's more to it. I, personally, like to be flattered and acknowledged and if a guy doesn't show/tell me he's really interested in who I am, yes, I will lose interest. It's a huge turn-on. I liked the mind of my latest date, but wasn't sure about the physical, so I think it was important to go ahead and find out I didn't have a good physical connection with him. It's far too important to me to have that. I do wonder with guys- on one hand if you go too far too fast will they think you're easy or if you don't will they think you're a prude... Because I actually am quite open sexually, I don't try to play like I'm not, if I am hot for a dude and he's hot for me, well then it's ON! And it only gets complicated if one of us has emotions the other doesn't. That guy I dated in October who VJ says is my sm, is a perfect example of how it can be ok. We were intimate, we were both honest about who we are, and there was never any issue, and now it looks like we're coming back together for more!
--- Quote ---kira...we're on clouds right now me and you lol...floating and man dating lol
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cjean, I am so glad you are moving on!!! Shake your bootie, girl! I wish I was back in NYC for just one night so we could have some fun!
--- Quote ---There is NO ONE here where i live interesting...and I hate online dating.
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beachgirl, hang in there, from what I remember you want to move away, and maybe you should focus on that. Go somewhere with a bigger pool! ;) You seem young, right? Do it, do it, do it! I've moved around a lot and it gets harder as you get older and if you have kids, etc. You can private message me if you like, but where are you exactly? What do you do? (I hate online dating too, just had to by default! ha! ie. older with kid -ha!)
--- Quote ---Nobody can eat just one! Unless of course they eat the entire bag the first sitting....
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hahaha!! aef! I guess I've got more bags where that came from -haha! The VJ sm guy recently commented on a fb post of mine about me being sick of eating my kid's leftovers...he said I needed a guy with a fast metabolism to eat 'em! haha!! (That would so be him! I remember him standing in front of my snack cabinet like a machine eating a few handfuls of everything in there! hah!) More chip reference- if your chips are really good, they'll be back!!! ;)
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